so ive gotten tons and tons and tons of numbers from online... its easy to do... then go to txting.. and it gets fun, flirty, sexual very fast... first date i usually suggest dinnner at my place and i cook. this is also my normal first dates from real life pick up..

but im not much of an online pua... so its not my strength.. i can get numbers and dates easy.. but problem is that from online since never met.. most arent comfy coming to my place.... when i pick up in real life.. they come np.... so ive met up with three girls in the last week from online.. out for a drink and one i went to her place...

in all of them.. bascially they are shy... im not. i talk a lot.. keep them laughing... touching... that kinda shit. at the ones house.. i was touching legs.. making lotsa jokes but i donno if it just cus im not used to it or what but i dont feel like a kiss is possible.. i think it might just be in my head cuz im like "online to fukn... no way" ...

but then....when she comes over to my place its 99%.... at the girls house i didnt kiss her i didnt feel like it was there.... she probably wanted it for sure but i just didnt feel like it went that way.. her place was boring.. just cable tv.. we had a drink and chatted on the couch. the chats were fun and nice. but... and there was touching and im sure i coulda kissed but i just didnt feel like it felt right.....

i donno mebbe if i meet some more ill just get used to it.. but so far i prefer real life a lot better. my day 2s are EASY that way... i might just from now on if im attracted go for it everytime no matter what ... i donno.... dates feel totally different when u meet someone from online.... i feel awkward....

anyone else have this issue or have advice.... like i said tho... when they do come over.. and the ones i suggest to come over are the gooooood lookin ones confirmed.. the "maybes" i do the drink date but the drink date feels so forced and awkward.... i donno how to handle it... possibly all in my head thats holding myself back but i donno...... any suggestions?

possibly the dates you have from online feel awkward because date is like a step back from the flirty sexual txting thing u had going on before. Almost like starting again from the beginning. So you feel out of alignment from what happened before. One way to deal with that perhaps is to avoid the sexual txting so that the date is more like a follow on from previous interaction rather than a step backward.

BW3's works well for me.. Laid back SPAM, good food and beer. Make sure you never sit at a booth. Circular tables are great. That was you can be side by side.