Theres this chick ive met a few times through friends and at parties and stuff like that. Its random when i see her so i sent her this Facebook message. And i made sure to not ask her for a friend request before i sent it, im going to let her take that step. Heres the message i sent her:

you didn't take any pictures from saturday did you? if you send some good ones I might agree to be your facebook friend


Lemme know what you guys think

This is a pretty vague post. You didn't offer any real insight on what the interactions with this girl have been like, besides the fact you rarely see her #1, #2...what the hell happened Saturday? It's difficult to gauge your opener without any real background information.

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I usually find ppl I've met in person will accept a friend req without any kind of hook
or you could have put some kind of nice to see you again sentiment in the friend req. That's the sort of thing ppl say in person so it's not out of place.

alright, a little background information:

1) shes really hot (probably gets 10 friend requests a day)

2) last saturday we saw each other at a mutual friends party and we hit it off pretty well, but she left early because one of her friends who she doesnt get along with was there too

3) she didnt take any pictures, i think, but this seemed like an innocent enough way to open the conversation


I didnt want to just send her a friend request because she probably gets a bunch every day and i wanted to stand out. Im not worried about her accepting my friend request, im worried about getting lost with all the average chumps who hit her up on a daily basis.

Im hoping this sparks her interest a bit as she probably doesnt have many people just messaging her, telling her SHE has to be the one to earn the approval.

And im wondering if this is enough to make her take the next step and ask to be a friend on facebook..

thanks all - cheers!