so theres this girl, shes my cousins neighbor...and well ive been talking to her online/on the phone because she lives pretty far from me.
i havent seen her in like 2 or 3 weeks.
but basically, i try my best to like tease her and stuff...she says i make her laugh and smile...
im not sure if this fits into the site...
but how do i like...make her my girlfriend?

First, you have to be willing to lose her as a friend. You ready? If so read on.

Second, you have to have the balls to let her know that you want more than a friendship. If you don't, just leave now. Remember, you are already willing to lose her as a friend, why not have the balls to try to make her more?

Okay, so you have the Intent. YOu have the Balls. Your halfway there. You know how you and her will pal around and just go and play video games/walk around/ whatever? Yeah that is what I call the "Pal Routine". You need to break your pal routine with her. Go somewhere you have never been together and then act how you normally act except you begin Kino. The difference between friends and lovers is 3 things. Intent, Kino, and SOI. As I have said you already Intent. You must establish and escalate Kino and then make a SOI. An SOI is a Statement of Intent. This tells her that YOU think of her in a different way than Bob your friend from the village. But Evo... What are some examples of SOI's. Well billy, they are as follows:

"I really want more from us than a friendship."
"We deserve to give US a chance as more before we settle into this friendship."
"I like you more than a friend."
"You make a terrible friend... but I think you would do much better as a girlfriend. Maybe."

You KNOW what SOI's are. You have probably been telling yourself one about her over and over and over inside your head. (Just so you know... certain Kino can be considered a SOI. LIke touching in her nono-spots or kissing her. This should be used cautiously though and APPROPRIATELY.)

So. Now you know all the 3 steps. Intent, Kino, SOI. Intent is Change. Kino must be escalated. SOI's must be clear.

Goodluck

EvoJ

"You make a terrible friend... but I think you would do much better as a girlfriend. Maybe."

wow you use this and get it to work you know you in man!

I feel I should point out that the first part of this is C&F! (thats the "You make a terrible friend" part.)

Then become very very serious when you say the second part. (Thats the "I think you would do much better as a gf".

Then back to C&F for the "Maybe"


EvoJ

i screwed it up..
ga
i asked her out, and stuff
and she said yes at first
but then like
said no
heres her myspace message

Hahah i didn't get to see your cousin get all dressed up for his dance
Michael i don't see me and you as anything but friends
I am sorry
and I thought it was sweet of you asking me out
but right I just have so much to worry about right now
and dealing with a bunch
I don't want it to get weird becuase its fun talking to you and hanging out
but as friends is the only way I see it
=/
i am sry


Fifi


gaa wtf

fuck it dude, her loss, there's a shit ton more bitches out there, that's how you gotta look at it, never forget that... don't let one bitch screw up your chances with the next one.... you're in high school right???? fuck dude the last thing you want in high school is a girlfriend, there's like a .01 % chance you'll marry your HS g/f, this is the best time of your life to meet, attract and seduce HS bitches and develop the social skills of a pickup artist, you game as many bitches as you can and don't worry about fuckin up here and there, we all do, if we didn't we wouldn't have this site, when you don't give a fuck is when the pussy comes knockin down your door, concentrate on your game, there's no win or lose, it's all practice...

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any Man can sweep any Woman off her feet, you just have to have the right broom...

write her back and say "what you talking about, I don't wanna date you... it'd never work out b/c whatever, you're too short, you're too busy, we live to far apart." Whatever you can think of that sounds legit.... you disqualify her as to why you wouldn't date her, you say you just wanted to hang out but oh well, I already made plans for that day anyhow... depending on what all she knows, hell I'd tell her I'm already dating some girl and you only wanna be friends with her..." and the game goes on and on....

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any Man can sweep any Woman off her feet, you just have to have the right broom...

I'm sorry that it didn't work out bro. This is the secondary reason you have to be willing to lose her (The primary being that you have to not care when asking).

Anyway, be proud of yourself for stepping out of that LJBF zone. You may not have won her but you have shown yourself that you are willing to do what is necessary for you to be happy. You can only have big wins if your willing to take big risks. Whatever you do, don't pine over her. It IS her loss, go out and pick up a new girl and spend some time with her. Show fifi that you were close to her because you wanted a relationship, not because you were settling for a friendship. Show her with these other girls and maybe she will realize what she has lost.

EvoJ

exactly, women are attracted to men that ARE with other women... You put up a normal dude in front of girls and say he's single and you get nothing, same guy and you say he has a girlfriend and there's a lil bit of interest, girls want what they can't have. It's pre-selection, she sees you with a hot broad on your arm and she's like damn what's she see in him??

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any Man can sweep any Woman off her feet, you just have to have the right broom...

yeah you guys are right
fuck it
im moving on to another chick right now anyway
hahaha
practices makes perfect