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PostPosted: Fri Sep 24, 2010 9:26 pm 
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I've been gaming a girl online for a few weeks now, I have no idea what's going wrong. She's working every day, so the only time I catch her is online, late at night. We're talking about many things, I try to keep it interesting and most important .. fun. She's very responsive to everything I say. The only problem is that she never initiates a conversation. I'm confused, if she's that responsive (plays along in games / tests / jokes), she should be into me, thus she should be trying to talk to me on every occasion she gets, but that never happens. I talked to her 3 nights in a row, for hours at a time, then I waited 3 days to see if she initiates, but that didn't happen. What the hell's wrong?


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 24, 2010 11:27 pm 
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you need to get her phone number and/or initiate some kind of in-person meeting. online chatting for weeks is unnecessarily long.


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 25, 2010 7:08 am 
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It's unnecessary, but it was fun, we got married on this application and everything :)
Jokes aside, I'm certain she would give me her number, but it would be useless, she works all the time and never goes out. Initially we met in person, and then added me on facebook. The only thing bothering me (beside her working all day long of course) is that she never tries to talk to me, I'm beginning to think I messed up somewhere, or that she's just shy or socially miscalibrated. She had a geek boyfriend a few months ago, they broke up, and nothing since then. A few idiots comment on her facebook, but I'm sure they have no chance with her.


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 25, 2010 11:46 am 
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I don't know what is the PUA way... all I know is do a final approach and see if you can meet her. If you cannot move on!


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 25, 2010 6:39 pm 
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I had this problem and I just started negging the girl for it. The whole point of being a PUA vs an AFC, is that you can speak your mind..just do it in a way that is DHV.

Another alternative...leave her hanging! "How do you keep an idiot occupied, flip over this sign"...."how do you keep an idiot occupied......."

Say, "The most ridiculous thing in my life happened to me today...and I even got to see the inside of a jail cell. I've gotta go but message me later and I'll tell you about it..."
Say anything that may have sort-of happened to you... embellish a bit...and make it interesting. Girls love story tellers, get her in the habit of messaging you.

Also, the guys are right...get her number and start the texting game. It's such a great way to get you in her head late at night. Best of luck mate.


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