Okay so im from a small country where everyone knows everyone, and this girl is HOTTTTT and shes been one of the popular girls since we were like 14, im 21 now.

I go to university in canada and its only since october last year that i started PUA, MMA, hooked up with girls and gained confidence in myself.

So now im back in my country for summer and just for the fun of it i decided just eye contacting her, and to my surprise she looks around at me alot...

ANYHIZZLE, last night she was talking to a friend of mine so she was in our area at the club and i figured if theres any chance its now... I just opened simply by asking if she was in canada with a friend cuz i saw pictures, she was sitting so i kinoed on her lap, which she looked RIGHT at, saw my hand coming from a mile away haha, right after i touched her lap in a getting-your-attention way i recalibrated with body rocking and torso facing off slightly,she did put her hand on my shoulder, we talked for a second then her friend came in and started dancing on her so i left the scene and talked to a nearby girl to keep value.

ANYHIZZLE, saw her in the parking lot, my friend and i were getting in his car to go off and she was infront shootin the shit with randomz, i was like HEY U MOOVE GIRL U IN DE WAY... YES U

i never expect this one... she came around was like have a good night ok? and i decided say, hey so i see u around but i dont actually know u, she told me her name and i was like safe im adam bla bla, gangsta hand shake then moved out...


NOW, im thinking of messaging her on facebook, she told me her full name after all. is this a good idea? what kind of thing should i say? nuff guys want her thats for sure. is a facebook message SPAM too much? or is it showing confidence, if so i would LOVE to know an idea of how the message should look

plz help, i wanna send this message today

Dont' leave it long before messaging her, I would recommend ASAP so you keep the momentum from the night out!

Continue the comfort chat, make her laugh, anything funny on that night out that she did, take the piss (jokingly i might add, if she doesnt get it say something like 'Wow, think someone needs to change their tampon and develop a sense of humour" and point out the fact it was a joke!)

I wouldn't go for the number tonight, I'd just chat to her for a bit make her laugh, end the convo on a high then when you come back to it again in a day or so, get her digits and take it from there.

Cambria