What I noticed about online dating is this: online dating is for those that don't have really good social skills and are afraid of rejection. I'm starting to give up dating online because of the simple fact that the women online base their judgment if they want to meet you or not on your profile and what you're photo looks like.

I created a dummy profile on this one dating site and nicked named this dummy profile SexyHunk80. I left the profile alone and got 8 or 9 messages within a week and counting and most of them were girls that were stunning. Three girls were models in Chicago.

So, this character I built up is a body builder, tan --- well here's the profile http://www.okcupid.com/profile/SexyHunk80 as you can see I didn't DHV in the profile - all the women did was see my picture and go wow ur so hot blah blah blah blah.

On my original profile http://www.okcupid.com/profile/PapaBear81 i'm kinda struggling. I only get fat chicks lol! When I'm out in public I get alot of skinny girls to flirt with me - go figure huh? But I'm too scared to go any further because to cut long story short I'm not ready for any type of relationship. I live in a group home, no car, no job - those are all DLV.

I'm not saying dating online is right or wrong - it may work for some, it may not work for most. It use to work alot for me in the past but not any more.

I created the dummy profile to set an example of what really mattered online and the conclusion came to me that women can't see the guy's personality from their profile.

Thanks for reading people!

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well, hunk sounds like a sex machine and he has the profile of one too. try creating a good-looking bum and see if he attracts anyone..

I think the type of the picture is as important as who's in it, try taking/finding a more creative picture of yourself. If you need specific tips just reply.

I would more say online dating in general more caters to those that fear rejection as well have problems approaching girls in public. But online dating can be useful if you are looking for something specific or don't have much time to meet people. I agree with you that women judge your profile to see if they want to go out with you or not. From the girls I talked to that do/done the online dating thing, just mostly looks at your pictures. At the same time what else do girls really have to go with to decide if they want to meet you or not?
What did we learn today? That women can just as easily be as shallow as guys when it comes to looks. No I am not saying looks counts for 100%. But when it comes to online dating it certainly counts a lot more than in real life.
This is why I only have an outline picture of me and a picture of my duckies (yes the yellow ducky ones )
Its not easy to display personality online. Online takes away a lot of the real world stuff.

I've been really frustrated with online game. My situation is kind of hilarious. I'm a very good looking guy, like Hunk, I'm getting a good amount of messages per week (around 6-10). Most of these girls are HB8s.

Sounds good? Wrong. I'm not interested in getting picked up. Theres no fun in that, and I'm very specific about what I'm looking for. Whenever I find someone who interests me, I cannot for the life of me get them to respond. I can get 10 hb8s to open me, but not successfully open anyone I choose in 30+ tries. I'll admit, I've been going for top tier 9s and 10s, but its frustrating.

I think, even if you're a stud, you're going to have trouble with these sites. It may be hard to stand out, but main problem is that most of these women are really picky.

if you wanted to prove shallowness you should have had those pics on a profile that you know doesn't "work". The guy you've created does DHV. He embodies confidence and caring. but you can't measure and compare the thoughts of unshallow women. More intelligent women are possibly confused the contradiction between pictures and profile. If he kept his clothes on he'd prob do better with them. That persona doesn't have to make explicit DHV statements as his life choice & aspirations do it themselves!

Clearly fakeguy has a lot going on for him whereas as you on the surface do not, and yet I'm sure the reality of your life could be perceived a lot more positively than you do yourself. You say you don't have a job but your profile says you're "self employed". One sounds better and implies more.
The specifics of that are a lot less important than your drive and the direction you're going with it. Like you have a plan and are working to make it happen. Thats what fake guy DHVs with. That's how you DHV your life.

However the whole paranormal investigator thing could really set you apart from other guys. Does it has a heart-warming/spooky backstory to how you got into it, saw your dead grandmother as a child? The fact that plenty of people watch those paranormal shows and everyone has an opinion on whether ghosts exists or not and spooky things that happened to them. You can make is sound (or perhaps it actually is) exciting, scary even dangerous. Plenty of girls are scared to watch horror films or have had spooky experiences and here you practically living it and an authority on the subject. You run the team, make videos and do radio shows. That has got to be DHV.

in your profile you should try up-playing this angle and downplaying everything else. dont even bother mentioning your accommodation issues. maybe the paranormal is just a hobby but you could equally be trying to make a life sustaining business out of it. Such things are tough at the start.

No wonder why this one stupid chick just wrote me this crazy ass message! This is what she wrote:
It totally didn't make sense to me at all! I should've just ran with it and be like, "Yeah like totally - uh huh like duh!" or something like that! However my intellect can't comprehend her lingo. lmao! I'm being funny people, relax. Nah, but serious bro's it like totally didn't make one bit of sense.

Anyways, I could see why the profile DHV's itself. Thanks for the reply people! I'm thinking of creating some bum profile and put dhv in his profile and seeing if that works.

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If you are going to have some fun you may want to read this thread by a guy that basically did the same thing you about to do:

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthrea ... =113240131

Just to let you know its 150+ pages. The op does make fun of fat girls but at the same time it is funny with the things he says and is able to get away with. The sad part is so many of these girls pretty much eat up what he says and "asks" for more.

your pictures are terrible. You need to go out and take a lot more pictures of yourself going out and doing things on random nights and find some better ones.