So this girl I used to know way back in my AFC days and haven't talked to in about 2 years just sent me a message on facebook saying hello. We were very close friends, but being the AFC i was then I was too afraid to speak up and take it to the next level. I moved out of state and pretty much lost all contact with her. I am moving back to her area in a few months and would really like some advice on how to put the idea in her head that she wants me in the mean time so that she is ready for me to move in that direction when I move back. Any help is appreciated.

since you wont be seeing her in a few months. i suggest getting her number and gradually getting to know each other before you get there.

Do you want LTR with her?

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I am not really sure about the whole LTR thing. Back in the day when we were friends I know I did, but I am not certain if I want an LTR or just a fling yet. I know I want something, but I don't know to what extent yet. If that makes sense.

well till you decide shes still your friend. talk to her as such and see where that takes u.

i mean i dont kno what else i can say, u dont want LTR, and you dont want to LAY......

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Oh i absolutely want a lay. I just haven't decided how many yet. I think that depends on how good it is.

So you want help on getting the lay?

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Yeah, what I really need help with is how to make sure she knows that I am interested through facebook. I'm not really into online sarging so I'm not really sure how to go about all of it. If I had just ran into her on the street I would be fine, but I don't really know how to play the online game. I want to make sure that this doesn't end up being just old friends talking and starting up a friendship again. I have plenty of friends, I don't need another one. I want to get a lay.

LMAO, super funny.
You dont have her number by now?
I mean most of my online game(if any) is to get the LAY but i cant "lay" her on Facebook, so i get the number because
number=meet=LAY! or
PM=meet=LAY!
either way try to get the lay.

so i would get the number, communicate less to keep me out of the "friendszone" AKA the PITS OF HELL!, than build up sexual tension, and buying temp till you get there.

if you need help on this topic than i refer you to Cheifs: Building Sexual Tension.
ummmm search for it!

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Yeah, I have her number, but calling her is not exactly possible. I am a musician and thus I work crazy hours so she is never available to chat more than a few minutes when I am. Either way, I am not really trying to build tension at the moment. I know that is nearly impossible online. I already know her so getting to know each other is not really important at the moment. I am thinking that maybe I should just keep contact brief until I move back to her area and can game her in person. This online stuff sounds hopeless to me given the situation. Damn facebook.