Any policy on this? There are some girls I messaged a couple of months ago (3+ mo. ago) that I want another go at. There are a bunch of things that could have played a part in them not responding to your first message (bad opener, not looking for someone like you at that time, etc) that it seems to be like I have nothing to lose if I message them again.

There have been many women I know in real life who are not interested one day, and then very interested another day - months, and sometimes years down the line. People change, and I think it's a good idea to make the most out of that.

What do you guys think? Hopefully, if I do send a message to girls who didn't respond the first time that it won't be seen as a continuation of the original message on OKC and that they can see my new message only.

You have nothing to lose. You pretty much always have nothing to lose in the dating world, and especially in online dating. If you want to have a go at it, then do it.

One of the best quotes I've ever read is "If you have to stop and ask yourself whether you should or shouldn't do something, then you should." This is one of those times where that applies. Just go.

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