Look at the second post for a breakdown of this very interesting conversation I had with an HB7. I'm bound to be off on my analysis some of the time, so do let me know what you think

I started this convo with "Nice pic. whats up?" And I knew it was a lost cause at that point because she was paying like, no attention to me.

But I escalated it from nothing to attraction & closed it. Thank you, negs. Fun!




(8:15 PM) Twncntry: hey!
(8:15 PM) HB7: hello
hello
(8:15 PM) Twncntry: nice pic. whats up?
(8:16 PM) HB7: lol thanks
not much
you
(8:16 PM) Twncntry: guitaring and singing
and not studying
(8:17 PM) HB7: lol same
(8:17 PM) Twncntry: which of the above is the same?
(8:18 PM) HB7: lol not studying
(8:20 PM) Twncntry: okay im practicing how to be a creeper
(8:20 PM) HB7: lol huh
(8:20 PM) Twncntry: im gonna say something, you rate me on how creepy i am, okay?
(8:21 PM) Twncntry: omg you're not studying either?!?!?! we're so similar. wanna go for a movie this weekend?????
(8:21 PM) HB7: lol oh god
(8:22 PM) Twncntry: hahahahaha sounds like you've been there
1-10, how much?
(8:23 PM) HB7: 7
(8:24 PM) Twncntry: nice!
im using that line on a girl
creep her out and hopefully get her the fuck away from me >.<
(8:25 PM) HB7: lol ok whats wrong
(8:25 PM) Twncntry: ok have you ever had a clinger on you?
(8:25 PM) HB7: yes
(8:25 PM) Twncntry: just keeps CALLING and TEXTING and doesn't let go?
yeah exactly
(8:25 PM) Twncntry: how the hell do you get rid of them?
(8:26 PM) Twncntry: tried that...
(8:28 PM) HB7: ummmmmmm
(8:30 PM) HB7: i am angerrd
(8:30 PM) Twncntry: so am i
(8:31 PM) Twncntry: wait, why are you angry?
(8:31 PM) HB7: some guy asked me out to a club tommorow
i said yes
(8:31 PM) HB7: in this he thought i was going to fuck him
yep he was wrong
(8:32 PM) HB7: and now he wont talk to me
(8:32 PM) Twncntry: aw. poor boy.
(8:33 PM) Twncntry: i has cookie for him.
(8:33 PM) HB7: lol no
he fail
beat him
(8:34 PM) Twncntry: i don't beat fellow playas. its unfair.
(8:34 PM) HB7: do
it
(8:35 PM) Twncntry: my principals are more important to me than your whims.
(8:36 PM) HB7: lol but i am god almighty
(8:37 PM) Twncntry: how, in ANY way, are you even CLOSE to holy?
(8:39 PM) HB7: lol im a vestal virgin
(8:40 PM) Twncntry: AHAHAHA
ahaha
haha
ha
(8:40 PM) HB7: what dont you believe me
arent i cute and pretty aha
(8:40 PM) Twncntry: you are?
(8:40 PM) HB7: lol than ks
(8:40 PM) Twncntry: no, you're not
(8:41 PM) Twncntry: well, pretty okay, but cute?
(8:43 PM) HB7: lol ok what would you define me as
(8:44 PM) Twncntry: scary, violent princess of darkness come on earth
but not cute
(8:44 PM) HB7: huh
no
..
why would you say that
(8:44 PM) Twncntry: sometimes i scare my children to sleep with stories about you
(8:45 PM) Twncntry: you're that scary
(8:45 PM) HB7: im crying now thanks aha
(8:45 PM) Twncntry: haha no problem
(8:45 PM) HB7: you suck
(8:46 PM) Twncntry: but yeah you're sorta pretty.
like
marginally above the above average category
(8:46 PM) Twncntry: i'd even call you hot. but i have high personal standards.
(8:47 PM) HB7: lol oh my
i think my ego blew up
(8:48 PM) Twncntry: lol
(8:50 PM) HB7: lol so if it wernt for you high standards you would call me hot
(8:51 PM) Twncntry: lol maybe i would
(8:53 PM) HB7: lol you think im hottt aha
(8:54 PM) Twncntry: i think you're a warm, fun-loving, pretty person.
(8:55 PM) Twncntry: but hottt is pushing my personal envelope
(8:55 PM) HB7: lol whatever
aha
(8:56 PM) Twncntry: ^_^
(8:56 PM) HB7: lol
(8:57 PM) Twncntry: there's a couple things that would put you in the hot list
(8:58 PM) HB7: lol like
(9:01 PM) Twncntry: lol
maybe i'll tell you over coffee this monday?
say, 1pm?
(9:02 PM) HB7: lol ok deal
(9:02 PM) Twncntry: give me your number so we can be in touch
(9:02 PM) HB7: xxx-xxx-xxxx
(9:03 PM) Twncntry: cool. i'll meet you at school then
afk dinner
(9:06 PM) HB7: aha ok

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Stormy: Being friendly to seek approval is needy. Being UNfriendly to "raise your value" is needy. Needy people depend on others' reactions.

Okay, that's the complete chode part.

Now I start throwing routines in.
this was almost a filler. She replies with monosyllables. But note what happens next:
and I just let her hang with that "ummmmmmm" and I didn't respond.
Notice the DHVing I did back there.

She reinitiates conversation:
My theory on this section is, I think she was DHVing herself back to me. She picked up that I was showing off with the clinger, so to match her level to mine, she comes up with a similar social situation: LOOK AT ME!! GUYS ARE FALLING ALL OVER ME AND I DONT CARE!!

If my theory is true, she's already starting to qualify herself to me.
With the "I has cookie for him" I'm saying that its not really an unusual event, its a common unfortunate event, and I don't really feel pity for a loser like that guy because he's below me.

She says "Beat him". Am I feeling Alpha Male right now? Damsel in Distress cometh to her knight in shining armor?

I say it would be "unfair" to beat a "fellow playa". DHV on both ends: unfair means that the guy is somewhat inferior (as opposed to myself) and "fellow playa" implies that I get a lot of women, i.e. i am a "Chosen of Women"

She says "Do it"... SHIT TEST! I tell her my principles are more important than her "whims" . What I'm saying is, "Woman, I'ma do what I'ma wanna do, and thats all that I'ma do." Passed shit test.

She shits me again, in a cutesie way. She's bending to the situation, she's becoming more timid by taking on a whimsical argument: "But I'm god almighty."

I shoot her down again, and she qualifies herself to me as a "Vestal Virgin", at which I completely melt her face by LAUGHING uncontrollably.

Notice the interplay of frames, mine unchanging, hers bending and trying to affect mine but failing.
She's qualifying herself and shit testing me. I thought I failed when I said "you are?" and she flipped it with "lol thanks." I negged her with "Okay you're pretty, but cute? nahhhh"

I keep negging her until she says "im crying now thanks aha" which is a SHIT TEST in disguise! so I hold my breath and type, "haha no problem" and she's completely deflated and says "you suck"

WOOHOO!

now i'm saying she's actually up to my standards in a way. I'm building her back up from the ashes, to show that okay, I have a reason to date you because you're actually good enough for me.
I just said "lol" and waited for her to carry on the conversation. I could feel her like an asteroid falling towards the sun----she HAS to fall, its the LAW of GRAVITY baby, she has no CHOICE in the matter, she HAS to continue the convo.
You can see the shit test here... she's continually testing my integrity. I'm not giving in at all.
The next part was very interesting.
She looks like she's ending the conversation/ending the thread by saying "WHATEVER!!".

I notice this, and I put the ball back in her court with the ^_^ smiley, hence the burden is on her if she wants to continue the conversation.

So she goes "lol", and I continue the conversation after that because she's obviously interested in me, her momentum's built up nicely.

Watch my close:

VOILA!!!! number close and day2 over msn.

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Stormy: Being friendly to seek approval is needy. Being UNfriendly to "raise your value" is needy. Needy people depend on others' reactions.

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That was some interesting stuff .. Good job bro!