Hey, folks, long time listener first time caller.

So I've been having a problem lately where, despite getting a nice reaction to an opener and flirting a little, being asked questions about myself without prompting and the like, there'll come a point where the other person'll just stop replying.

I was just wondering if there were any good openers for a second conversation you could think of, to get things moving again. Something a little more response-worthy than "hey, what's up?".

Thanks for your time!

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Pantheon,

just leave it for 1 or 2 months and then re-open. They most likely will have forgotten all about you and your opener and you could probably use the same one! It's best to try something different and do NOT even mention you've mailled/chatted before.

You know, given about 2 seconds thought or reading through a girl's profile I can generally remember messaging them even after nearly a year. I wouldn't count on them forgetting after you'd actually had some conversation.

Isn't the game here the same as a conversation that suddenly drops? Review the stuff she mentioned before and bring something else back up, like "You mentioned climbing Mt. Everest blah blah blah...?"

Why not do that here?

Love is an endless mystery,
for it has nothing else to explain it

This is soooo ironic. In the last few days I have received 3 emails from girls I mailled back in November (My profile was taken down by myself and I always provide an external email so they can contact me) Having little info about these girls I thought I'd sign back in again under a new name and profile and check their details. While logged in I thought - let's check these girls out and check out any new girls on the site. A strange thing happened I mailled a girl who I thought was new and she replied that I had written to her months ago! So hands up on this one...girls DO remember

Lol i actually had a girl today call me out and say
"And i'm pretty sure you've sent this before.
Come up with new material.
kthanksbye."

so no wouldn't suggest a reopen unless its something completely diffrent


P.S. anyone know a way to fix this xD

i think if you wanna re-open the best way is to meet her casually! i mean if she keeps posting on facebook or watever that she always goes at 5 to starbucks... GO TO STARBUCKS you get the point im getting across

if just bumping into her is not an option and your only option is online, you can be like hey i heard this and that about you, or b like hey! long time no speek or something lame like that. another thing you can say is like i have a question? and when she replies b like yea how u been?. heres an example

you: hey long time no speek
you:[wait a brief moment] that was lame... but anyway what up?
her: haha not much PUA
you:(continue with watever material you want)

if you wanna do it, dont think about the outcome or what she might think.

do everything, regret nothing because the world is yours for the taking

-Philos

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Did she respond to the first one?

If not maybe something like:

It's a long term message, you weren't meant to reply until I said it twice.