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A few days ago, I convinced this girl to come over after she finished class and join me in "celebrating the beginning of the weekend." To my delight, she agreed. However, she just texted me saying "Dunno if I'm going to come, I'm really tired."
I replied, "It's not like we're gonna go mountain hiking, lets just relax and watch a movie or something"
If she keeps resisting, should I just freeze her out and forget it, or should I keep pushing? Should I just reschedule?? Perhaps she wasn't even interested in the first place, and she planned to flake from the beginning!
I'm clearly overthinking this, so any advice would be appreciated.
this is what happens when you don't build enough comfort