Hey I was just wondering if you guys had any ideas on successfully date closing on facebook. Is there something I can smoothly say to number close and date close? I don't want to be dealing with flakes...

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I'm slowly starting learn that one of the best ways is like... a blitz game lol.

A lot of people are perfectly fine with getting attention from some random person over the internet. They'll email/im/SPAM ya back in forth for weeks, months, years if you let them.

Do NOT let this happen(be sure that the person is fine with meeting people online). Build up comfort and rapport as fast as you can so you can at minimum get a #-close. My idea of "fast" is within 1-3 days of first contact.

Make sure you've got a strong level of comfort/rapport with them before going for the date or meet up. Lets say they are totally down with the meet up. Solidify that with showing some basic internet safety.

"Hey lets meet at the park, after sun down when no one else will be there, it'll be nice and quiet so we can talk"

"Ok, I found this new Swing Dance Club/Jazz Club on 5th, we should check it out, theres like 50 people on the guestlist already"

Which invite sounds more alluring to you?

IMO the first sounds exactly like something a crazy person would say? Seriously you're still a stranger I aint going to a dark place with you alone.

The second is on the money: You appear sociable and reasonable, you're not out to do anything insane because you'd be safe(ish) around many people.

I hope this helps.