ok tricky situation, i boned this girl like 7 years ago, havent seen her scince than, found her online and started a conversation, it was playful and fun. i think i may have rushed into telling her id like to get together and catch up. it seemed like the right thing to say as we do already know eachother and she was dieing for me last time i saw her. she initially said yea for sure! very exciting and said shed love to catch up...etc. but today she said she was feeling sick and we could get together another time. i mean the problem with the situation i already know is that its pretty damn obvious im just looking for sex. i mean i already went through this with her years ago, and than not talking to her for years and randomly messeging her to meet up seems pretty obvious, ok so i fucked up. whats the protocal here, what do i do for damage control?? im sure once i meet up with her i can figure the rest out, but how can i get her to come out