i have a question may be you guys can help me out ..

i just saw girl on facebook in which she has a profile picture with a luxury car and i just started by sent her message and start a conversation ...

here is the conversation until now ...

ME:
hey!! give me a lift please
is that yours by the way ??

HB:
hahahahahaha. yeah thats my car

ME:
ohh so you won that luxury car ... you're very lucky
at least if you're not going to give me a lift can you give me some luck please ??

HB:
lol, well actually it's one of my cars.. i donated it to the dubai airport who are now trying to make some money by offering ppl to win it. the profile pic was for publicity. u know. so ppl can see the kind me who donated it..
haha. nd no i ned all of my luck. i dnt hv that much left.

how should i complete this conversation ??

i was going to send her back by telling her that she's a show off girl since she put the pic on her profile so people can see the kindness of her ...

what else can i say ... any ideas please ??

thanks
Tomoya

You should ask your brain "how should I complete this converation" then whe it answers you should listen to you.

You should also know that the only reason you are here is because you don't trust yourself. The only reason you don't trust yourself is because you need theropy into loving yourself and trusting who you are.

You have to trust you own words. You can ask for advice a million times and recieve it and it will work, but it won't be you. Only you can make you love yourself. You have to achieve something by being yourself.

I know it is so hard because you have NO IDEA what to do. That is why I want you to pay money and go to a therapist. You will get done in 6 months what this website can not do in 3 years. Trust me because it worked for me.

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Walk Hard

Seriously, shut up with that bullshit. He asked for advice so either you give it to him, or you don't, but you don't talk about something you know nothing about.

About the question:

"Sweet, I like kind people. I met this girl some time ago, and she really needed some place to sleep so I let her in at my place and she slept the night over. So I am probably kind as well. What is the kindest thing you have ever done?"

This is just an example, but it shows how you can get a conversation going.

hey thanks guys ..

yeah its true that sometimes i got blank what i'm going to say but is this a serious problem that i have to go to a therapist ahh ??????

Actually I have had several clients who I was able to do in a few hours what their so called therapists (with post-grad degrees in Psych) couldn't do over the course of years... There's more then one way to skin a cat. Traditionl Psychology is great for the mentally ill, but very slow acting on the "generally mentally healthy" population.

This site is great if you need guidance. I think it is flawed because it devalues your own instincts. It makes you rationalize everything you do and catergoize it into compartments of what to do, and what not to do. I think this catergoization is bullshit.

I think that you need to trust your own mind, and if it goes blank I guess come here. Oh well just know that after it stops going blank then stop using these rules. They will hurt you.

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Walk Hard

hey guys

i just replied that girl again with your given help and she replied back ...

ME:
Sweet, I like kind people. I met this girl some time ago, and she really needed some place to sleep so I let her in at my place and she slept the night over. So I am probably kind as well although i'm not rich as you . What is the kindest thing you have ever done??

HB:
hahahaha. woah. gosh that's lyk the kindest thing ever xD she was probably real hot nd u were lyk uh YEAH!! of course
uhm.. i don't know. i do so many kind things that it's hard to keep up... i helped teach orphans how to read once upon a time. and i played with disabled kids.. yeah im lyk a saint


how should i reply to this ...
yeah true sometimes i don't trust in me but the majority of the situations will be that i will get blanked since i don't have any ideas and experience with this situations ...

hope you help me out with this ....

thanks

well it sounds like she is really going for it. no idea what to say but i would ignore Magnum im 30 and had several long term relationships and quite a few short ones and i need loads of help.