I joined a couple online dating sites just to try them out. Most sites do a little quiz that finds out all about you and your personality. Plentoffish.com is the only site I've seen that doesn't ask you questions...you just make a profile and away you go! But from my experience with every single site...if you don't have an amazing photo that the girl likes then you're not even going to get a chance to talk. For a while I had an older picture of me before PUA research and messaged girls with no reply. Then I changed it to a newer picture of me and messaged the same girls...about half of them responded. Then I put up a picture of a model and almost every girl messaged me back. While doing these changes I didn't change anything on my profile except these photos. Real life > online for people who don't naturally look amazing.

Man i've had heaps of really hot chicks add me. You have to get good photos of yourself and use them online.

I mean I go by looks when I'm searching for HB's online, that's all you really have to go by apart from their interests.

I used to feel the same way, until I used Insider Internet Dating (google it).

I've been using it all summer. In July it got me 4 first dates, and in August it got me 6 first dates.

The point is that the stuff you put in those messages, and to a lesser extent your profile *really* matters. And yes, do you do want to put up your best photos...do a little "market research" by testing different different pics on hot or not