background: dating site. all our messages are 2/3 paragraphs, abt the length of this post. This girl msged me one day and wrote a nice email we've written 4 emails each to each other and a) we do the exact same stuff its crazy b) she's ignoring almost all my jokes and teases for information c) her response time is very slow and getting slower arggg bad sign.

i'm stuck cuz still on the dating site w/o a number or email or chat. her last email was about the weekend when I am trying to find out her ethnicity and dreams. so now what do i do? go back to opener line and restart? more comfort building or just ask for her number to meet her up? or ask to aim/gtalk with her because its going too slow?

thanks for reading!

yeah duh ask for an aim or number!
you need to escalate girls wont.

plus she opened you, that's a big ioi

Could you please add excerpts of teh email to give us a general idea. Thank you