So today I number closed a HB 7 without even asking. In summary of it I opened and followed PIG for the first few messages then continued into rapport and comfort building and about an hour ago (2 nights later) number closed. She seems like a really cool girl and pretty cute so I'm looking forward to maybe setting something up with her.

BUT I also got shot down by a HB 10 using the same methods here's our conversation. I still haven't figured out exactly why her responses were the tone they were or what went wrong. Most people if unintrested just delete and don't respond here's our convo.


Me
PIG opener
PS. You can have the house in Hawaii but I'm keeping the dog!


Her:
I'm taking the dog too


Me:
I don't think so missy! If I wanted to I would take everything. All I would have to do is tell the courts about how I came home from a long day at work to find you laid up with Pablo, our pool boy. I think I'm being more than generous giving you the house, besides you know how much I LOVE the beach the house is a hard commodity to be giving up.


Your Ex-Hubby,
Chris



Her:
sorry, i dont play that game. ex was cheating on me. I know you didnt know and was playing,but even so, thats not funny thing to play.


Me:
Our first fight! Already? That usually doesn't come until after the second date atleast. Looks like someone missed the memo on living life and letting go. Its ok I'll forgive you this time but one more snap like that and you're not getting my number! Anyway weren't we talking about unicorns and cupid or something like that?


Her:
no we wasnt, live and let go? about the number, remind me to cry later

grow up, please


Me:
You don't get out much do you? This whole social thing, you're not very good at it. By the way when did Murphy get internet? I thought you still had to pump water by hand and ride a horse to town there?

-Chris



Her:
oh when things go wrong its the other persons fault? I thought adults owned up to mistakes.

then you throw insults? my son is 4 and id smack his butt if he pouted as much as this. you resort to name calling?

grow up, please


Me:
I appologize for bringing up thoughts about your past that don't bring up good memories. You should put a picture up of your son, everyone loves kids! I just hope he doesn't get his looks from his mama or he'll never get the girls .



Her:
you came to me based on looks, so by insulting me whats that say about you?



Me:
Crystal, I can have any beautiful girl I desire. Sure you're a pretty face but the thing that really intrigued me was your interests and that you have a son to raise (I LOVE KIDS). Whats the good of being around someone if all they want to do is sit inside and be miss priss all day? I live in the mountains too and can relate to hiking, kayaking, 4wheeling, and about every other thing you listed as things you enjoy. I told you in my opening letter that I read and loved your profile. Just because every other guy messages you with "wow you have the hair of an angel" or some other corny pick up line they heard on MTV doesn't mean you should treat every guy the same way you do them. Besides, isn't that a bit conceited to accuse me of such actions?

-Chris



Her:
miss priss? im not the 1 who thinks I can be with any one i want. i have been told no and stood up on dates.

sounds like your stuck on yourself.

the thing that gets me is, you act all high and mighty then blame me and then start with the insults. when did we get internet and all that bs

damn grow up, if you can get any woman you want, why are you here? yeah thats whgat i thought. you woke up still in the real world

please dont contact me again

The reason you got shot down by the HB10 was that you never adjusted your game to her. You instead keep on following the script and she viewed it as a childish game and shut you down. You should have immediately change your game after her second reply when she said her ex was cheating on her. She told you indirectly that she did not want to play any games with you and wanted a mature conversation.

You can't assume that just because one method has worked for you that it will always work for you.

She basically told you you were going to fail, and you did.

I used to play Age of Empires 3 quite competitively, top 100 in the world, and all the noobs wanted 'build orders' (what to do and when). Well this script you are using is a 'build order'. Scripts are good and all but use them as a guider. Just like when your opponent in AOE3 did something unexpected, you move away from the build order and adapt to counter it, just like you should have adapted your game to counter her unexpected statement.

Hope this helps.