| I wouldn't worry about the options too much. Just put down what feels right and is mostly honest. Girls aren't looking for creepy guys advertsing hook-ups. The one option that I actually use, and I do know it is a neg for the ladies, is that I selected "hide my profile". I could care less what they think though.
On my end, I want to pick. I don't want fat scankers filling my in-box with "I'm a little over weight, would you like to help me shed some pounds?".
For your profile, make it witty, cocky and interesting. Don't mention shit like laying on the sofa watching TV or playing video games. Talk about Yoga, mountain climbing, buildning homes for homeless, riding Harleys, or whatever.
Prime chicks aren't cruising for guys. They get over 30 messages per day.So you need to break yourself out. With all that attention, they basically are just looking at your picture and then deleting your message.
The most important thing is the actual meassge. Use the skills you've learned here. You've got to find something in their profile to hook them with. If she doesn't show much, then you're gonna have to use your imagination and take a good guess.
POF is nice because it shows the messages you've sent and marks them as unread, read/deleted, or unread deleted. So you know exactly what's going on. I love that. You can also see who has been looking at your profile.
It was nice getting the read/deleted and unread/deleteds. At first I was sort of pissed, but then it made me remember that I just don't fucking care. It's a numbers game.
Track your progress,,, you'll probably start with a 10% return rate. So use all your skill to finesse your game and get it closer to 50% or so.
Have fun.
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