I thought I was doing good apparently I turned her off though, she goes to my school. I don't know what I did wrong I need some comments and advice.

11:51pmRafael
canada

11:52pmDanielle
americann

11:53pmRafael
its a good combination

11:54pmDanielle
haha what youuu mean

11:54pmRafael
Canada and America

11:54pmDanielle
nahh just canada

11:54pmRafael
ohh hell naw, dont even start

11:54pmDanielle
helll yaaa

Today
12:01amRafael
lmao freakin canadians thinkin there the shit

12:02amDanielle
nahhhhh hah

not me

12:02amRafael
so am i gonna see you at a party FOR ONCE or are you gonna be a "cool" girl and stay home and read a book on saturday night

12:02amDanielle
party forsureeee

12:03amRafael
haha so your goin tommorow?

12:04amDanielle
yeaaahh

12:04amRafael
lmao im sorry i just dont beleive u on this one wheres the party?

12:04amDanielle
oakridgee

i knoww about partys dont worry just most of them usually sound gay

12:05amRafael
hahah fo shooo, i didnt kno u were this cool

for a candian...



12:06amDanielle
lmaoo canadiansss are always cool

keep that in mindd

12:14amDanielle is offline.
12:19amRafael
lmao that was the most epic ending to a conversation ever

loved that keep that in mind line

12:20amDanielle
hhaha

12:20amRafael
deff scored some points in that one

you moved up like 5 spots in my cool list for that one

12:21amDanielle
haha i dont understand what was soo good about it lmaop

12:22amRafael
haha cuz u like signed off right after that

12:22amDanielle
lol noo i was on the whole time

12:22amRafael
so you didnt give me a chance to make some little cocky comeback



oh lmao thats weird it said u went offline

12:22amDanielle
haha dont be cockkkyy!

12:23amRafael
Haha my style baby

12:23amDanielle
mehhhhh

12:24amDanielle is offline.
12:31amDanielle is online.
12:32amRafael
lmao see u signed off again

12:32amDanielle
loll i didntt

12:32amRafael
omg

12:33amDanielle
??

12:33amRafael
12:24amDanielle is offline.
12:31amDanielle is online.


see

12:33amDanielle
hah thats weirdd

12:34amDanielle is offline.
12:36amRafael
lmao u did it again

12:36amDanielle is online.
12:36amRafael
deff weird

12:36amDanielle
hah kk well then thats fucked upp

12:36amRafael
haha so u think ure cool enuff to chill with me at the party tommorow?

12:36amDanielle
too coolll obviouslyyy

kidding

12:38amRafael
haha i like girls who have a high self esteem

i cant stand people who have low self esteem

12:38amDanielle
HAHAHAH im far from having high self esteem

in in the middle

12:38amRafael
Your the fucking shit

YOU

ARE

THE

FUCKING

SHIT



12:38amDanielle
hahahhahahhahaaha

12:39amRafael
Even though your canadian....too bad i dont hookup with canadians or you would so be mine

You should really talk good about yourself though

why dont you think your awesome?

12:39amDanielle
cause im not conceited

12:40amRafael
Haha its not about being conceited, you don't have to brag about it and shit.

Lets just imagine this, imagine however you think of yourself in your mind is how people look at you in real life

so if you think your awesome what does that mean other people think of you?

12:41amDanielle
awsome haha

12:41amRafael
exactly so it works in the opposite way too, if you think your a loser other people will also think of you as a loser

Now what if I told you thats this isnt some wacky theory and its actually true

Exactly

12:42amDanielle
hehe alright thanks for the little advice

12:43amRafael
haha no problem im filled with bits and pieces Underneath this sexy chunk of a man is actually a smart guy

12:43amDanielle
haha kk

12:44amRafael
I only like to share that part of me with people i like though so consider yourself lucky

Maybe i should start ignoring the fact that your canadian

12:44amDanielle
hah weree is this going?

12:45amRafael
Lmao whatever way you want it go

12:46amDanielle
hmm kk

12:47amDanielle is offline.
12:47amRafael
pshh so now we have to chill tommorow at the party,

12:47amDanielle is online.
12:49amRafael
i promise i will devote 5 minutes to you of pure rafa

12:49amDanielle
which meanss>

12:49amRafael
we get to talk at the part of course

party*

I really wanted to dj a party this weekend though i need some muneh

i luv muneh

12:50amDanielle
sucks

12:51amRafael
haha yeah, im poor now

12:51amDanielle
dont sayy thatt

anyone who can afford "school i go too* isnt poor

12:51amRafael
lmao my parents are rich i myself am poor

12:51amDanielle
lmao kk

12:52amRafael
You know what would cheer me up tho?

if you left me a comment on your FAVORITE picture of me

I wanna see if u have good tastes

12:54amDanielle
lol laterr..

12:54amRafael
lmao alright then, i guess ill ttyl

12:55amDanielle
ightt ttyl

12:55amRafael
actually one last thing

just wondering lol why are u on facebook at 1 in the morning?

12:57amDanielle
lol idkk, im a very late sleeper

12:57amRafael
haha same, i wake up like at 7 in the morning no matter what time i go to sleep tho

12:57amDanielle
thats crazyy

12:57amRafael
like ive gone to sleep at 4 and woken up at fuckin 7

yeah its messed up, Im a disturbed child cant you tell

12:58amDanielle
mhmmm

12:58amRafael
Haha your a lil crazy too tho

12:58amDanielle
gracias i guess

12:59amRafael
the crazy shoes

12:59amDanielle
haha

12:59amRafael
Haha i like them it makes you stand out from everyone else

12:59amDanielle
heh thank you!

1:00amRafael
lmao, you can do better tho

1:00amDanielle
what yuu meann

1:00amRafael
Ill show u my kicks tommorow and well see whos crazier then

1:00amDanielle
ightt\

1:00amRafael
i mean you can go EVEN crazier

1:01amDanielle
nahhh

1:01amRafael

haha i knew u wuldent be that adventurous

1:01amDanielle
imm cant get any crazierrr then my shoess

1:01amRafael
haha true that

you should stay away from me tho, im like toxic

1:02amDanielle
whyy hah

1:02amRafael
your too good girl for me

Im like the kid who would be like if you were in your last year of high school, id be like fuck it lets just go smoke some weed all that year. Im that TOXIC

Rafa = Bad boy

1:04amDanielle
haha are you trying to sayy that i was going for you?!

1:04amRafael
no not at all lmao why are you thinking about it? haha chill girl your cool but i don't know you might be a lil too candian for me

1:05amDanielle
hah noo i wasent thinking about it..just friends

1:05amRafael
Lmao but you implyed it

Lmao well c chill tho

1:06amDanielle
lol im not going for youuu hah i just wanna be friends

1:06amRafael
Damn are all canadians this forward?

I just wanna be friends chill girl

1:06amDanielle
hah good

im sorry but im a very honest person lmao

1:07amRafael
lmao i think ure cool and all but i told you your too good for me i need a bad girl

1:07amDanielle
it wouldnt matter anyways hah

1:07amRafael
help me find one tho, i know a perfect guy for you, he does charity work hes never hooked up with a girl before hes perfect

1:08amDanielle
nahh sorry, i just went through something, im taking a little break

1:08amRafael
ill introduce u too him

1:08amDanielle
its really not the right time hah

1:08amRafael
lmao, why what happened?

1:08amDanielle
long story

i dont feel like getting into it

1:10amDanielle is offline.
1:10amRafael
jaja alrite then, when you feel like opening up and not bein that closed up girl u can talk to me then

1:10amDanielle is online.
1:10amDanielle
haha alrightt

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The Wisconsin PUA

It all went wrong at...
You sound as if you are trying to validate how you act, even though you're talking about her. You are also giving her advice she doesn't want. You can't do logical things like this with a woman. It's interesting for us guys, but for women it's like... it's like when you're a guy and two girls are talking about hair in front of you or something. You so don't care. The same is true for women and these logical explanations and solutions to her emotional state or being. This is also a direct parallel to the "this dress makes me look fat" shit test women will throw at you, and you failed by trying to tell her that she's not fat (that she's really as cool as she thinks she is).

My lightbulb went off immediately as soon as I read that. And then further mistakes after that only accelerated the crashing process, such as too much reference to the party, to meeting her... too much importance on the event... it should be just some thing yall agreed with, and ultimately it's not something that's too high up on your mind. You attached too much importance to it, she got buyers remorse as a result.

Hmmm thanks, I appreciate the input. I should have kept it quick and short, and mentioned the party and been like when you see me there you better scream out my name and give me a big hug.

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The Wisconsin PUA

Bingo. Exactly my thoughts.

I don't really sarge online much, but I think it's really an invaluable tool to be able to have entire transcripts of a conversation like this at your disposal to pick apart to improve your game.