guys,

Opinions on this conversation on online facebook chat… please read through; opened with comment on her status on facebook she went to concert.

Need advice on what you think, where I could of done better etc.. after the last thing I said she went to offline chat but still on facebook. Did I push to hard, thought I was doin alright, I dunno need ur advice? I have talked to her before but only online neva met in real life but she is a hb from mates and from fotos ha! I don’t care if I get rejected or leads to nothing..

I also took story from TiemenZ
Seemed to work pretty good at first, I dno will update if anything unfolds.. Opinions tho would be great? Convo as follows
Cheers,

Cruisey

8: 50am
they didn't mime?

8:59am HER
oh no way

9:00am
not like brazil?

9:00am HER
nah they were reallly good hey

9:01am
ok thats good, where was it held at tho?

9:05am HER
hordern

9:13am
hmm, bloc party is pretty teeny bopper tho..

9:15am HER
no it isnt...

9:21am
haha its ok, ur cute tho

9:26am HER
haha wtf

9:27am
lol, im not the one whos a teeny bopper

9:28am HER
haha im to old to be a teeny bopper

9:31am
haha, can i get an unbiased female opinion on something?

9:32am HER
sure

9:32am
you dont have to answer but anyway

9:36am
got this mate, just finished a 2 year relationship

9:37am
and anyway he has been seein this new girl for like a few weeks and he was having dinner and she found all these fotos full of him and the ex

9:39am HER
whered she find them

9:39am
she liked snapped told him to destroy all the fotos and stuff or she wont be with him any longer. but the fotos are like of him at farewell and stuff
in a box

9:39am HER
haha fuck that she sounds like a pyscho

9:40am
my mates have all got biased opinions, but thought get a girls perspective, and you dont really know them, so whats ur opinion?
haha yeah i know, but should he do it, she seems bit crazy?

9:41am HER
nah he definitiely shouldnt have to destroy old photos
its like a closed chapter in his life sorry that sounds gay but why should he have to get rid of something that made him who he is today i you get what i mean
and she sounds really insecure
my ex did that to me, wanted me to get rid of photos and shit, but of ones just with certain guy mates
and he went psycho
so that chick sounds like my ex
so tell your friend not to destroy anyyy pictres, or if he wants to keep seeing her, just hide the photos like i did haha

9:45am
haha great thanks for ur advice. kinda good you have been in a same position before helps alot

9:45am HER
no probs

9:46am
sorry that it was heaps random hah

9:47am HER
nah its sweet haha

9:53am
u must come round with jack sometime
or are u to shy

9:53am HER
haha
er nah not too shy

9:56am
oh sure

9:57am
thats cool didn't really want to see u anyway

9:57am HER
lol

10:05am
you like that indie style music hey.. and wearin black mascara,
dog collars haha

10:06am
i better be careful better stop talkin to u..

10:07am HER
dog collars? haha
thats not indie
thats like goth death metal esqe
haha

10:08am
haha
yeah im going ur scaring me
freaking me out haha

10:09am HER
hah righteo

10:10am
nah ur ok, u can be fun to tlk to

10:10am HER
lol thanks

10:13am
when you have been out have you ever approached a guy?

10:14am HER
haha you ask weird questions
yeah i guess so

10:16am
i ask weird questions
im not the one with the dog collar

10:18am
but then again ur shy and its cute haha

then after few minutes i wait and nothing.. then she logged off the chat.. maybe she had to go, or maybe i went to far.. thought comments would be appreciated! cheers..

maybe i didn't tease enough i dunoo..

thnx!

maybe i should of said..

look i know u want my cock in and around ur mouth hahah not really jks!

She just had to run, I don't see anything there to turn her off.

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"A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes." - Mohandas Gandhi

anything u would of done differently or better, during the convo??

tips?

9:21am
haha its ok, ur cute tho

9:27am
lol, im not the one whos a teeny bopper

you threw in that compliment much too early. that wasn't push/pull, that was borderline weird. then you broke your frame by making an excuse for calling her cute.

9:46am
sorry that it was heaps random hah

Like Ross Jeffries says, you shouldn't make excuses for being you. You shouldn't be sorry for the frame you create. You know?

I kind of just got the vibe you were trying to make fun of her the whole time and you were sorry for doing it, demonstrating DLV.

Also, this was in facebook chat right? I would have also thrown in a false time constraint in that case.

Finally, you're not supposed to stay stuck on a neg, it has to seem natural, when you look for a reaction or make an excuse/say ur sorry (i know this is the third time i've said that) that demonstrates DLV. When you throw out a neg, it has to seem playful and like you didn't even think about it. Continue stacking after a neg, don't get stuck on them!