Hey im talking to this HB10 that lives in my apartment complex on MS and i need a lil help on what to say on how to get her number, and how to get her to come over and/or vice versa.
Heres tha convo so far

Me
great i cant do anything this week cuz im goin to tha HCo . but tha week after im free. how bout you?

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From: HB10
Date: Oct 19, 2008 12:14 PM



yea we should
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From: Me
Date: Oct 18, 2008 6:31 PM


oh...well it looked nice anyway lol
really? we should all go there sometime

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From: HB10
Date: Oct 18, 2008 9:24 PM


its a 98 its aight. no i havent been 2 any clubs theres a new that opened night called palladium
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From: Me
Date: Oct 18, 2008 5:08 PM


really wat year is it?
wat about clubs hsve you been to any of them?

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From: HB10
Date: Oct 18, 2008 7:24 PM


yea thats my jeep

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From: Me
Date: Oct 18, 2008 2:42 PM


thats true lol you been to flip flops? wats miltown like i havent been there yet?
in tha apartment complex by tha 4way you were in a jeep i think

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From: HB10
Date: Oct 18, 2008 5:01 PM

no theres not many around here im mostly at miltown since shes workin there. oh really where


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From: Me
Date: Oct 15, 2008 8:28 PM



oh yeah, you go to alot of bars?
oh and i passed by you today
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From: HB10
Date: Oct 15, 2008 11:21 PM


im gettin there ive met a few. lindsey works at miltown so i go there alot and always meet new people

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From: Me
Date: Oct 15, 2008 8:19 PM



thats wats up so you kno alot of people down here?
i thought that was you


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From: HB10
Date: Oct 9, 2008 8:25 PM


yup just chillin and partyin lol! yea me and lindsey were

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From: Me
Date: Oct 9, 2008 7:10 PM


you excited?
wat you doin until then? jus chill out and party?
oh and were you at tha basketball courts around 7:00 today?

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From: HB10
Date: Oct 9, 2008 11:51 PM

january

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From: Me
Date: Oct 9, 2008 8:56 AM



oh yeah when do you start?
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From: HB10
Date: Oct 8, 2008 11:07 PM



no not yet
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From: Me
Date: Oct 7, 2008 3:24 PM



you started at VSU already too?
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: HB10
Date: Oct 7, 2008 2:05 PM



its pretty nice i like it
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From: Me
Date: Oct 6, 2008 1:20 PM


you welcome how you likin it so far

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: HB10
Date: Oct 6, 2008 3:11 PM

well thank u
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From: Me
Date: Oct 3, 2008 1:40 PM


Welcome to Valdosta and Blanton Commons

wow. AFC epic fail.

Just meet her already. I mean damn, it's been 3 weeks already. How much pussy-footing are you going to do?

Meet her somewhere, and get her number in person.

I'm sorry, but I don't see this as a "help me, I want to learn the PUA ways and better myself as a human being", but as a "please make this girl like me" post.

so jus be like "we should meet up" or what if i say "before we go to tha club we should hang to get to kno each other better"?

No. You already went through the "we should meet up". She agreed with you. It's time to man up.

Say something like, "Okay, I'll be at the club (or starbucks or whatever) at 8:00pm on saturday. I'll be outside for 5 minutes, but if you're not here by then, I'm goin in without you!"

^listen to this guy.

also i would lay off the "i saw u...blah blah blah" constantly. it gives off a creepy vibe.

will do...but i see this chick in passing while im in my car.

still dont say it.

its natural for girls to find guys who see them but dont approach as pussies or creepy. Be alpha, I believe in u!

If you tell a girl that you talk to online that you've seen her in person twice, knowing good and well who she is, she will be wondering why you haven't talked to her. Have you heard of the 3 second rule? You are a little late lol...

When she was at the basketball court with her friend, I think you missed a golden opportunity to meet her because if you could have mustered up the confidence to approach her in a group it would have spoke volumes for you because they will at least see that you were ballsy.

I would also like to point out that you should be trying to DHV, instead you've done some DLV. You don't seem to be building any attraction. You are basically just doing all this fluff talk and not really engaging her.

Rather than offering to wait outside for her though, I would just tell her that you will be at the club. You already know who she is. So go preferably in a group, be having a good time and be opening other sets and getting into a talkative state and warming up for when she gets there. If she comes just go right up to her the sooner the better. If she doesn't show, no big loss, because you've still had fun with friends and been practicing what you've learned so far.

Yeah i think it looks not good. The convo is one sided and shes being nice replying to your messages and if shes hot I bet she knows your hitting on her. i think you have to make your motives less obvious to make yourself stick out from the rest of the competition, but hey if you can manage to get her to come out with you in reality then gw.

p.s i've never tired myspace gaming but i find it mega interesting reading these threads.

I couldnt approach her when I was in my car going to class. The whole reason there is fluff talk is because thats all I was tslking to her for at the beginning. I just discovered this PUA lifestyle last week, and im just practicing.

I'd have to say the only reason she's even still talking to you is obviously because you both live in the same apartment complex, and yeah all the "Hey I seen you hear, I seen you there" ect. steps into the creepy zone, rather you should say "you've probably seen me... wherever". She's agreed to meet up with you at least, but remember that's in no way because of any skills or techniques, either you're just going off looks alone, or she just doesn't want to come off as unfriendly to someone who lives in the complex she just moved into to. Where this will end up for you will pretty much all depend on when you meet her.

you kno wat i should have prolly added some back story to this I actually have known her for a bout 2 years and we are from tha same county. So trus i aint no creep.

Well obviously we're not accusing you of actually being a creep, or saying there's anything wrong with actually noticing her. Just that's usually a big turn off to girls the way you put it, and USUALLY that's how they would percieve it as. This whole things about realizing where we go wrong, and learning what works better. To get what we want.

When she said she's going to party you should have said

"wheres my invite! Im a party animal"

Would of gone down a treat

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