Greetings everyone. The following conversation went down when I tryed to use a version of the Lesbian Girlfriend opener.

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From: Faust
Date: Oct 2, 2008 6:08 PM

Are you wearing a wig...or is that your real hair?
-Faust


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From: HB 7
Date: Oct 2, 2008 11:31 PM

that has to be one of the strangest questions that I have ever gotten on here...but yeah, it is my real hair.... why do you ask?


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Faust
Date: Oct 6, 2008 10:44 PM

oh. I was just curious. don't worry it looks nice. while I have your attention, I need a female's opinion on something...my band mate, (blank), is dating this girl, and she goes out with her friends, has a few drinks and ends up making out with a random guy at the bar... .would you consider this cheating?
-Faust


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From: HB 7
Date: Oct 6, 2008 11:08 PM

yes.... i would, are you just messaging, asking random womens opinions? by the way, both me and my female roommate both concur that that is considered cheating



Any suggestions? Should I C/F or neg? Or something else? Thanks.

I really don't see a reason to neg her at this point. You really already did that with your opener. Typically, when you are working girls online there isn't a lot of need for negs. Negs are designed to be used to lower perceived social value. Online there really isn't any perceived value except what she has in mind for herself. I find one or two is about all I need to break the ice. Besides she thought you were interesting enough to mention the question to her roommate.

C/F- you can sure go this route and say things in that nature...I don't see anything wrong with this approach if it is congruent with who you are and how you behave.

Anything Else? - Yeah, the opener and neg did what they were designed to do and now you have a girl talking to you through email. The next step is to cut this thread and start a new conversational topic. Then leading to more emails, increased comfort, then going for her Instant Messenger information. Then talking on IM to build more comfort and attraction. Finally, getting a phone # and a date.

Have fun my man!

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Thanks for the advice. Now onward to take this from online to real life.

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I agree with JSmooth.

There’s little need to neg her since you’ve already opened and having a conversation. What you might want to do is rope in a little bit more of what her friend thinks so you don’t come off try hard when you inevitably take JSmooth’s advice. But do it sooner rather than later.