What do you do after you add a Hb on msn basically or another IM program

I'm wondering the same, But i can offer this much...

I talk to this girl (HB8) on msn lots and i always leave as soon as it gets un interesting, so hopefully every time she remembers talking to me on msn it a good memory...other than that i dont know of any "chat styles" but I'm interested fo sho


holla



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Just use all the game you've learned, it works about the same through IM..

Just make sure negs have smileys, because you can't convey sarcasm well in an IM.

how do you get her interested and talking about HERSELF?

Simple way: ask things. bit AFC

my way: when talking about her day or whatever, focus in on something interesting. If there isnt and she says something like "nothing much happened today" tease her about being boring and not having a good time then follow that with a DHV story about what you did today (and ffs make it insteresting.). That should spark convo. It it doesnt then follow up with something like "so honestly, ur life cant always be as boring as it was today what was the last really cool thing you did?" hopefully, she will say something. Then focus in on it.
By focus in i mean to like pick about bits of it, ask about it, open questions (question that require more than yes no answers). Then once ur talking about that try linking it to emotions (women always will talk about emotions, ALWAYS.) then once your onto emotion, try to link it to other experiences she has had. Either by asking her about other times she felt like that or talking about times u felt like that.
Get it?

Summery! Ask ----> focus in (that means listening) -----> link it to emotional feelins of that event -----> change subject to that emotion ------> find out about other times shes felt like that.

hope that helped.
/madals

He is my question?

I work at a job that has IM chat for work purposes. We chat a little social chat but 90% of the time its work. How do i get someone interested in me starting from a work relationship chat style whatever you wanna call it. I spit a little game but i always bounce before it dull and it gets dull quick i just cant get these girls to holla and be interested, they are sales people and do have to work but still i feel if a girl was interested she would say fuck work this dude is cool. anyways holla wit your perspective.

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opening could be:

THIS IS NAME NAME SPEAKING!

ARE - YOU - FOLLOWING - ME!!!!?!?!

haha, sounds stupid, but it works!

Haha i like that one