I just opened with are you shy. What do I say now?

I just sent this message last night
Me: Are you shy.... or something???


and this is what I got

hb6.9: haha yea just a little lol why you ask?







What do I say now?

You could always go with "because I've been on this facebook/myspace thing for a while and you haven't even tried to say hi " or try something yourself since she left it open ended.

Good luck

-Xeroz

thanks but I think she has been registered for like 2 days lol

I wouldn't think about that too much. Honestly what do you have to lose? I highly doubt she would say anything like "I've only been here two days idiot" in which you could say "Well I usually introduce myself to new people right away! Where are your manners!" or some bs like that to neg her and still sound flirty.

She already gave you a pretty good opening so I say just go for it.

Hope that helps,

-Xeroz

hb6 'why you ask?'

'good because thats a tell tale sign to weather a girl is friendly are not. (Could add >) I hope you dont prove my theory wrong'

Then comment on something in her profile and maybe even joke about it.

If she asks say its useaully the girls who are shy at first who are the nicest.

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ok I sent:

Good because thats a tell tale sign to whether a girl is friendly are not.

What is it that you like about r&b?


(she said she liked r&b)




and she sent back:

oh ok lol. well it all depends on who it is, sometimes i like the singer and lyrics or just the beat lol the words can be really bad and stupid, but if the beats good its ok.

What type of music you like?

i asked 4 girls 4 openers and i dont know how to respond

1.me: are you as intresting as you look
her: oh yess

2.me: whats with the hairdo
her:lol what do you mean

3.me: whats with the hairdo
her: what u mean by dat

4.whos that guy in ure pic
her:guy in what pic

fav openers are.
we are so divorced you get the dog i get the house.
the classic wig opener
a profile neg which is always good for anywhere just find a pic or a little fact & bust there balls you always get a funny response.
if you get poked on fb first as i often do then say hey watch how hard you poke me besides i'd rather be the poker than the pokee.

Hey guys. Ugh I feel dumb for asking this because I thought I would have read enough stuff and be natural enough to think of witty responses but...

I opened with the fake hair opener on facebook:

me: Are those extensions or is your hair real?

(she replies in like litterally 1 minute)

HB9: they're real...why?

I dunno what i should respond with!

I was thinking something along the lines of...

"A lot of girls these days have fake hair extensions and such it's hard to know what's real and what's not. I'm always afraid that one day someone is gonna rip their entire face off and reveal to be a man or something. You're not gonna do that to me are you?!?