| Alright guys, today i'll be sharing with you one of my day-game sarges.
recently i've been working on my day game, and i defenately see some results in terms of number closes.
I usualy start casual conversation with girls at shopping malls and try sexualize them as much as possible.
for me, most difficult part is the hook point.
I'm a pretty good looking guy, i'd say an 8, so no problem for me to get attraction straight away
however, many times the reaction is embaressment/shy laughtor that leads to just walking away giggeling.
this one usualy happens when there's a cock block around (mostly another friend)
my sticking points:
1) I'd say I come off a bit threatening as I know for sure these girls want to talk to me but they are really shy
to talk to strangers.As I've already learned, girls in Singapore are afraid to talk English to foreigners
they somehow feel like their english is not good enough so it's pretty threatening for them.
2) Another possibility is that my value to these girls is way higher then their self-precieved value,
so they actually feel like i'm looking down on them or got no chance with me.
Yeah I forgot to mention, i'm a caucasion, so as you know, this fact kind of works for girls here in Singapore...
So, let's get to it, my number close, a few days ago at the mall:
I was having my lunch at some kind of a higher-end coffea shop (they got the #1 Prata in Sg i'm telling you)
in that place, you share your table with other people,
I was sitting at a 4 seats table when all other 3 places were empty.
than, HB8 is done ordering and wait for her food, she takes a sit at my table, at the sit which is the farrest from me
(in front to the right)
instantly, a train of IOIs start streaming from her:
she doesn't know what to do with her hands, she's looking for places to look while waiting,
she play on-off with her phone, she plays with her hair heavily, she scratches her face non-stop.
honestly i'm quite used to it already
but still, it's cool to see how they get nervous around me and start not being able to control themselves...
this whole thing happens as i'm eating, concentrating on my plate like a starving caveman.
Eventhough I was aware of everything that was happening on the other side of the table
and eventhough I was digging her looks and wondering how her breast looks without the white bra she was wearing,
It was only a few minutes after she sat down that I was actually starting to think about picking her up.
Firstly, I thought, we're going to have a confirmed interrupt in a few seconds to a few minutes
because she was wating for her food. However, she's going to come back to my table to eat anyway
so I was thinking if I should open already or not.
eventually I waited for her food to come, and anyway I wanted to enjoy my prata for a few more minutes..
than, her food came and she sat back. she took out a pack of tissues from her bag, took one for herself
and put the pack on the other side of the table, near me, scratching her face and pulling a hand through her hair
instantly after.
I was more than half way through my food, and she had done anything to open me, including semi-offering me a tissue.
I should better chime up and say something or i'll be the lame guy who avoids talking to her and will not be able to open.
Ic3berG: Is this for me?
HB: (blushing to a colour of the curry sauce on her plate) sure you can use it
Ic3berG: oh, that's nice! thank you (taking a tissue and putting it next to me)
so do you usualy like to eat here?
Hb: ya! i come here alot for lunch
Ic3berG: yeah, it's like you can devide your life into 2: before and after you tried the food here.
when people come to eat here they usualy come back, I really like the food here.
HB: (laughing and smiling)
Ic3berG: so you are working nearby, you come here for your lunch break?
HB: no i'm actually a university student, I live nearby, how about you?
What basicaly follows is qualification. I was asking her question about her life, job etc.
and she was answering willingly and was trying to ask some questions about me as well.
all the time I was maintaining the frame
by having an opinion about everything she says and by trying to to show her why she is cool when she DLV herself.
YES, she was actually saying she is boring, not so smart and not interseting
when i reflect on the convesation, it takes me back to my sticking point - I come off as too high value to her
I should DLV myself a bit or DHV less, eventhough in that set I was not DHVing at all!
one more thing to mention, during the whole conversation she was too spooked to even touch her food,
and I knew her comfort levels are just getting lower and lower.
after a few minutes, I decided i better cut off because she is going to accossiate me with these negative un-comfortable thoughts
Ic3berG: you are actually a really nice person, it would be cool to meet up again some time
(not my best number close I have to admit)
HB: maybe I'll give you my Email (a note to myself, defenently not enough comfort so far)
Ic3berG: Email?? that's lame i'm not taking your Email... (a smile to calibrate)
HB: ok so it's 9602...
after exchanging real names I've done a mistake by not hagning around a bit more,
I smiled, told her to enjoy her prata and went off.
to conclude, an - ok set:
I opened and went staright to qualification
after having difficulty to create enough comfort as set was getting nervous looking at her food
I number closed and ejected.
even with that much amount of attraction it might be a flake coz no comfort.
Talk soon,
Ice
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