Hi there. I am new to this. I tried going to the Malls alone but I just can not commit to it so I need a buddy so that we can encourage each other. I am Christian. I do not want to sleep with girls. I just want to have female friends and learn more about the game so that when there is the girl that does count I will not screw up. Please shoot me a PM if you're interested.

I'm not in San Diego, but its great to hear there is another brother in Christ in the Game! It sucks that with all the "Christian dating advice" that nobody in the Church teaches this stuff, and we have to learn it from places like here. I'll be praying you find an awesome wing man in Christ!

I'm not in San Diego, but its great to hear there is another brother in Christ in the Game! It sucks that with all the "Christian dating advice" that nobody in the Church teaches this stuff, and we have to learn it from places like here. I'll be praying you find an awesome wing man in Christ!

It's ok man, you don't need a wing. I never had one and honestly sometimes they get in the way. Just remember to be true to yourself, work hard but don't be hard on yourself.

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It's exactly the same thing for me. Christian dating advise doesn't discuss what is needed to first get the girl. It only addresses what follows. I need a wingman for encouragement not for physical help. We can encourage each other here.

Interesting. I used to live in San Diego. Most beautiful women on earth there and so much variety. I really wish I was there again to wing with you. Sorry bro, I'm in Japan now.

And just an afterthought; But most non-practicing Christian are going to eventually be turned off by a practicing Christian like yourself, just the same as you know it's not going to work out with you and a non Christian woman. My point is, is that you would probably have more success in getting what you want approaching and targeting women who share the same values as you. I think that's going to be tough to find at the mall. Perhaps you need to consider places where you can find practicing Christian women.

What got me interested is that, good Christian guys who get all the girls in Church have the same skills that people in the PUA community promote. In short the skill that I need to approach a girl in the mall and get her interested in me is the exact same skill that I need to do that very thing in Church. It only starts to diverge later. If I do not have the skills needed in the mall setting then the girls at Church reject me from the get go, in an average of usually 30 secs.
Also, if I know that this girl is not going to be the love of my life, I can try things with no pressure. The ones that I really would want to marry are far apart and I can not waste the opportunity that I have with one of them to 'try' something new.
I hope I make sense, I may be wrong but that's how I view it.