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 Post subject: sarging in Boston
PostPosted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 1:54 am 
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Location: Boston, MA
I am 26 y.o. young professional. New to the game and in need of a wingman to sarge on weekends. PM me if you are interested.


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 Post subject: Re: sarging in Boston
PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 12:52 am 
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Location: Boston, MA
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Making sarging simple
I want to make sarging as simple as going to the gym where all you need is someone to spot you. Becoming a PUA requires ACTION. Pickup in my opinion is a SKILL which one needs to EXERCISE in order to become good at. Missing a sarging night carries almost the same consequences as missing a workout. Therefore it is not productive to be constrained by a schedule of couple of friends. Also everyone has his own schedule. Hence active PUA should have enough options for a wing to have a convenient sarging schedule.
I understand that sarging alone is also an option, but as a beginner I am not comfortable doing that.


Benefits of local PUA community for beginners
All of us have friends whom we can go out with once in a while. Some have enough friends to go out every day, some - don't. My personal problem is that half of my friends are difficult to move off the couch and another half have GFs, who I think quietly consider me a bad influence :) Therefore I can't go out whenever I want, rather I can go out only when my schedule matches schedules of other people and they are in the right mood. That makes sarging nights more EXPENSIVE. I.e. since sarging doesn't happen often enough, there appears a desire to NOT FUCK IT UP, which consequently makes the approach anxiety more severe and adds nervousness to the whole process of pickup.
If I could go sarging whenever I wanted (2-3 times a week) I would care less about each individual night. I would be able to focus more on the actual pickup rather than be distracted by a RITUAL of going out and thoughts after unsuccessful approaches should those happen. I would get used to not drinking alcohol at clubs and still feel comfortable. I would make friends with bouncers and promoters, which is a social proof, etc.

The Message
This is the message to all Boston PUAs of all levels (I am a beginner myself). Let's unite in our efforts. The more people joins the group, the greater chances each member has of having a wing whenever he needs.
For now please PM me. If I end up even with only 1 response - I still will be happy as it's better than nothing and will still increase potential number of my sarge nights as well as his. If I get substantial number of responses - I'll set up some kinda mailing list to help us communicate.


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