Hi guys. Um, I'm 21, really quiet, never had a girlfriend, never kissed anyone. I don't really get out, needless to say I'm not happy with that. I have been thinking about going to a nightclub partly simply to see what it's like, because I've never been to one. My social skills are really bad and to be honest I'm desperate, but I've now run out of people to ask to take me to one, so I guess I might have to do it on my own. Any thoughts on that, would it be a good or a bad idea? Are they particularly good places for shy people to find women, and would starting off going in the small hours and/or in the week be very sensible? I've been to the pub with people after work very occasionally but that's as far as my social life gets at the moment.

Thank you for any thoughts...

Damn, I meant to post this in the shyness/anxiety forum. Sorry.