Whenever I approach a woman in a public setting , I always feel that people are watching me hit on her and judging the shit out of me. It really is the biggest thing holding me back right now. If i could be alone with these girl for only a few minutes, I am convinced I would be ten times more successful.

It really gets into my head, people watching me trying to get in her pants, even tho I try to make it look casual. I even end up thinking "oh maybe she heard about the community, or the female opinion opener before and she knows what I'm doing"

Really throws me off every time. I am not a shy person usually, but when I feel watched holy shit I become anxious.

yo man, you gotta realise that what you are doing is high value, is cool, is what separates you and makes you better than the rest.

Yeah, so what if other people see you going upto the girl, and the girl knows what your after , thats cool, you know why.

1. You go for what you want, all these other guys are just looking at this girl and imagining approaching her anyway, or will do at some later stage, your just actually making it happen.

2. Your not intimidated by her. to you, shes just a girl, your just liking what you see and seeing if shes fun. shes got no special powers of hold over you, shes just a girl, like all the others you've dated before.

Just remember, you go for what you want and your not intimidated. I had this exact same problem too, this is what solved it for me.

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I refuse to let fear be a problem

Id rather die on my feet than live on my knees

all you are doing is being friendly at first anyway, whats wrong with being friendly

ya above posts have very good points...but generally stop caring of what others think of you...
At the end of the day its YOUR life, and not theirs so who the fuck cares if others think your hitting on her...
Ur not going to have a happy/good life if u keep thinking people are judging you and living up to societies expectations. Stop caring and go for what you want. Thats being a man.

Hope that helps!