I have a serious problem, and it's blushing.

At home, with my family

At school, when I have to talk infront of the class

ESPECIALLY infront of girls


What do I do?

Smile lol....Smiling is proven to actually get rid of redness around your face crazy right.

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Attraction is not optional - Lucky

i have the same problem, if they mention it ( sometimes somebody stupid mentions it to me ) just say your hot and its upto them if they take it as physically hot or just hot asin heat.

Throw it off with humor.

Example:
When in front of class sarcastically say " I just want everyone to know that im not blushing, im just half tomato"
Or
" I just want to say that im nervous, so if you see a tear or 2 come out its cus im crying"

Always smile =). Like that

Good luck

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I'm walking on sunshine! ;D

LOL I agree with throwing it off with humor bro.

I had something similar happen to me not too long ago. Overall Im a very shy guy but I try not to be. I was playing Blackjack at a local bar about a month ago and Im just messing around w some HB's and a dude. I start doing some game just for the hell of it lol and one of them actually responded EXTREMELY well!! She literally started hitting on me pretty agresively... of course Im trying to be agressive and confident lol.

She was blushing and as they mentioned that I had her blushing I felt my face BURNING... fuck!! I was Blushing too!!!!!! So all I said was "Shit, here I though I was a player hitting on her, but she totaly outplayed me, she has me blushing and shit!!!" lol everyone laughed and that was that. I smiled and was able to keep my face under control.

It sucked cause I was in total control of the set, and yet I was BLUSHING!! lol whatever, if anything it just shows you are a bit vulnerable (which girls love), just dont lose your confidence. She actually though it was cute and didnt feel embarased that she was blushing anymore. The nighet ended w a number close and showing all of her tatt's and I only showed her on of mine, hehe.

So in coclusion, blushing sucks, just expect it, smile, and take control of your body dont just shut down. Maybe even call yourself out before people call you out. like "What the hell are you doing to me? U better stop u got me blushing here!!!" now its her fault lol.

Cheers happy gaming
Janzi

AWWWW how cute

LoL, now you are just hitting on me Cygnus... you are making me blush... lol

i know. i love the cock you see.

Getting red happens when a secret could be revealed. You have the idea then that someone knows or sees or hears that you hide behaviour; like a loving feeling or feeling inept, feeling dissapproved etc..

So with girls when you have an idea or fantasy about her and by talking to her you are afraid probably that she figures out that you like her.

You are afraid at that moment that by just talking to her she discovers you like her.
And that you like her reveals a hidden feeling. A strong hidden feeling.

So being open about what you hide is a good step to change.