hello guys
well lately Ive started to have this problem and i Dont know how to over come it

i started watching and reading pickup like...2 months ago..
Got the mystery book (although i read only untill A3) so far
I feel like i have a problem....i have serious fear of Closing and Rejection..

and it makes me feel frustrated that i possess so much information...but i dont really put it to use...i do open sets sometimes but..but still i dont feel as confident as i should..i mean i got so frustrated that even i feel like im losing my game..

any help?

appreciate
mef

I overcame mine by just going for it and being honest with my desire to close her ,it dosent always work but I didnt cheat myself out of the opportunity to try for a kiss or go for a number etc..,its lying to talk to a girl you would like to get to know and not ask for her number so stop lying ask your brain "how do you know brain? when it stops you because your brain sometimes makes these fears and fantastical scenarios seem real but in reality they havent even happened not with this girl and if they do happen they happen once in reality in fact not over and over in the opinion and fears of our brain So let a chick tell you who she is herself in realty when your honest and go for the close and leave the lies and dishonesty at the door.
peace.

Stop reading, now. The coursebook mystery has is best used as a supplement to your game -- you shouldn't read it and then go out, it covers entirely too much material.

You should focus on just A1, A2, and A3 on the first few days you go out. Play with peacocking, openers, threads of conversation, and microcalibrating yourself with your targets. (Specifically, I'd plan out what kind of girl you're interested in getting, and starting to calibrate yourself towards that niche: good girls like bad boys, so do you play that role? How about the douchey frat guy? They get girls too. The straight edge corporate executive? The Hippie? All archtypes that can pull specific types of girls if played right.). Don't read the whole book and then work on going out -- it's entirely too much to process in a single night and you'll get what you're getting right now -- frustration and lack of motivation. focus on small, easy wins to keep you motivated: successful opens, conversations with sets, etc. How much motivation would you get if you went out tonight and got 3 number closes? Use that as fuel to keep practicing and further motivate you! Don't sabotage yourself by just reading and doing nothing! You don't see any Return on Investment for that!

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