A lot of guys don't understand why Kino is Sooo important. In fact they're complete wussies scared to even touch a girl on the arm. And God forbid hugging and kissing . I didn't write this article but its a must read.

THE IMPORTANCE OF KINO
Posted in: Flirting/Body Language Tips

It’s critically important to physically touch a woman early on in a seduction, sometimes referred to as “kino”. Here’s the scientific explanation of how and why it works. Then I’ll explain how to use touch to reliably get laid.

Touching a woman causes her body to release a powerful sex hormone called oxytocin. Oxytocin increases a woman’s testosterone levels, the hormone responsible for her sex drive. Oxytocin also causes her to feel a bonding with you and to feel good around you.

Even for a woman who “never feels like sex” and acts cold, a few touches can make her horny for sex. It doesn’t matter where or how much you touch her - even a small touch on the arm is enough to release oxytocin hormones into her body and warm her up to you.

What’s more, oxytocin gives her the desire to be touched even more, producing yet even more oxytocin - a reinforcing cycle of sex hormone escalation.

One other thing… this oxytocin touch response is MUCH more powerful for women than for men. Oxytocin requires estrogen to work. Without estrogen, it has no effect. And women have much more estrogen in their bodies than men. Ever notice how a woman you never noticed before touched you on the hand or shoulder and suddenly you started to think differently about her - in a sexual way? Well, in women the effect is 10 times stronger! Don’t underestimate how one or two well-placed touches can make her start thinking about you or even get her wet between the legs.

Okay, here is how to use this powerful scientific knowledge to get laid.

First, be the kind of guy who is comfortable touching women ( kino ) from the moment you meet them. Be a physical kind of person. Act as if touching a woman is a normal thing you do all the time and women will accept that. (If you start touching a woman all of a sudden after a few weeks, it will seem weird to her, so start from the very first time you meet her.)

Begin with small touches on the hands and arms to make her oxytocin hormones kick in. As you progress, play footsies with her under table. Take her hand when you walk together (don’t ask, just take it). Tell her to sit on your lap and stroke her thighs (again, don’t ask just do). The more you touch her in a playful take-charge way, the more she’ll want more touches and then even more. By the time you’re touching her nipples through her shirt the oxytocin hormones will be raging, shooting her testosterone-driven sex drive into the stratosphere.

Also, never ask a woman “Can I touch you?” It’s creepy. Don’t ask. Women like men of action, assuming you have some form of rapport with her.

Now here’s what you do with women who consider you to be “just a friend”. Let me tell you a quick story.

One woman I knew considered me “just a friend” and whatever I said to her didn’t seem to work.

Knowing the scientific certainty of her oxytocin response, I began to work my spell. At first, I touched her innocently on her arms and hands. No resistance. Soon I got more playful with her and would grab her by the waist and playfully wrestle her to the floor when she was being a brat. No resistance.

She kept telling me she only wanted to be friends, but her body was beginning to tell me another story. She invited me over to a sleepover with some of her other friends. I took the initiative and lay next to her in bed and neutralized any objection by telling her how much “I liked being friends” with her. I then proceeded to playfully tickle her. All the touching made her oxytocin and testosterone levels flood her body… and she was getting horny under the covers despite herself.

Pretty soon she was calling ME… and now that we’ve done the deed, her bonding feelings for me caused by the oxytocin are firmly entrenched. That’s the flip side of the oxytocin response - once she’s got her, your only problem will be keeping her at arms length!

Now get out there and put those hands to work

Final note from EasyLover: Non Physical Nice Guys ALWAYS FINISH LAST!!!

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So u think you can handle this?

NICE post good attention grabbing title

Last time I called someone pathetic for being scared to tapp a girl on her shoulder. I got hated by some scrubs and got a minus -5 rep points.

all all this post does shed light on why kino is so important

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Well that cuz some ppl don't like tough love
u have my female vote that's what matters

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So u think you can handle this?

makes sense. good example i use to get girls attention, the side tickle.

Ex: so this woman asks "who ordered this sandwich" and this girl wasn't paying attention, so i casually lightly tickled her side, with one finger. almost like a scratch, which startled the hell outta her, although i did not make EC with her when she looked at me, i just did a head nod pointing in hte direction of that woman who was preparing the sandwich or whatever. this girl then opened to me. i think its a good example of the point this guy was trying to get across..
great post, thanks for sharing. def true.

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"You're so money and you don't even know it!"

Great post and it needed to be said. Whether or not these guys are looking for the love of their life or just for the night, how can you expect to get anywhere if you can't even touch her elbow to get her attention?

Great post, excellent way to get the point across

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~Surreal

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"Why do we fall, sir? So that we might better learn to pick ourselves up."

Who wrote this post i need to talk to them!
This is a good Find.

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Ratio theroy...

Good one. Gets down to the nitty gritty of Kino and it's results

Great post easylover.
Also great while negging a target. W/ playful "hits & pushes."
Kino = the road away from the friend zone.

respect

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the one and only

Intreasting because david deangelo says not to use kino off the start.

how can i just hold on to a woman's hand?? that's just weird.

Thats because David Deangelo is a Jabroni he's laid back PUA i don't really identify with him

build up too it if ur afraid start by touching her elbow, arm, hands
its real easy especially when ur leading her through a crowd of people
perhaps u need to make reference to the paragraph again if u don't touch girl early like as soon as u meet her ur OUT

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So u think you can handle this?

its best to touch in a friendly playful way, then to act seriously like ur her bfren or husband when touching her.

COz if she thinks ur touching her bcoz ur wanna get serious wit her then ur out.

the touching should be natural for you both, if she stops to think and contemplate the touching then you are too deliberate and hench creepy. If you graze her thigh or entangle your legs and just keep talking as if its completely natural and irelevant then she wont care.

There is nothing more exciting and sexy then having your legs entangled and hands all over each other but on the top of the table nothing is going on, it gives you your own frame with her in whch nobody else can enter.

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What a title!

There is nothing close to that of using kino. I always use kino withing the first 10 minutes of meeting a new girl. Some guys have no idea how to use this and tend to cramp up or freeze right before doing this. All PUAs at some point have gotten a bit nervous before moving to kino whether they admit it or not. Just keep in mind that practice makes perfect. I really like to open a small set of girls and use kino on all of them and then give a bit more attention to my target. sometimes I get lucky and have two targets trying to picky me up.

A little advice to using kino is try not to do it too much. I use it in the beginning, sometime in the middle, and when I close. Kiss closing is the ultimate showing that your kino and other tactics have worked.

The simplest way I used to get used to using kino without nervousness, is to go up to a girl that doesn't look too good and practice. It may sound a bit shallow, but it helps when you go after the really hot women.

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