Ok i've been reading and thinking about PUA here and there since may last year, but without any real results, apart from the improved body language which lead to some girls opening me, but that is still very rare, and accounts to nothing because of what I think is my main problem when it comes to getting girls into bed: I never get sexual with them in a conversation!

It is weird how I just cannot start with it. Like something is blocking me. I never had problems approaching or talking to anyone in a non-sexual conversation. In fact I never had any fears in my life apart from those natural fears that almost all people have, and I was able to overcome them when it was needed. I.E. fear of getting hit while boxing, fear of bungee jumping - with conscious effort I overcame all of them. I could say that I was considered brave, even crazy, by some of the more tame guys that are now getting girls regularly.

Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I never had a girlfriend. I had sex many times with prostitutes, and after some time I figured that no number of prostitutes will ever fix the problem. Its not like I look bad (I seriously think I am above average in looks). Its not like I am insecure of my penis size or something like that.

I do not aim to be some kind of player or something, I just want to be able to get a girlfriend and regular sex, and I think that would make me much happier, since I am pretty content with all other areas of my life for now.

Any help on what to read or what to do would be greatly appreciated

What did you make never having a girlfriend mean? having a girlfriend is a process like riding a new bike you learn the gears and the limits as you go along all of us at the start of a new relationship are feeling our way through them from scratch.I was told by a taxi driver once about relationships "theyre strange you spend months trying to get into one only to spend the rest of your life trying to get out of one".read a book by nancy friday titled my secret garden its great to see how women think underneath the boring escalationless conversation.

One problem is lying to women as in not being real with them about your interest in them as sexual beings so your going to have to go through a few no's to get a yes as mystery once said "you need to open atleast 100 sets to get good so tonight guys get ready to fail".
anyhow thats my one cent.
peace.