After high school me and my best friend graduated and were deemed virgins. It was here I discovered pua and I would share to him my findings. Ridiculed by other guys, we put down the video games and made an oath that we would progress.

1 year later. We're changing. The books and life's work of these authors had freed me from the world I was trapped in. I had found my myself making out with girls, something I've never done before. My friend was getting dome and even managed to lose his virginity.

2 years later. I can now sense when girls like me or not. I can read "vibes". my friend is improving and the gap between us is getting greater.

3 years later. I've managed to get 1 girl naked in bed but didn't do anything. My friend is on a entirely different level then me, he bangs on a monthly basis.
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The main differences between us being. He has a job where hes surrounded by girl coworkers and apparently it's improved his talking skills drastically. (he works at Chunkys, a movie theater where they serve you food and all). I'm always in the house, I don't interact with other human beings. So it only makes sense that I feel odd when I'm in open spaces and that people will find me weird. I'm not as advanced as other kids my age due to the fact that "I don't get out much". I've let my parents are handle too many things for me. I am seen as a "child" to many girls. I am 20 and I am in the mist of creating a plan to get a job for the first time in my life and start doing things for myself.
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I am familiar with the game, but i feel too weird when I'm sober. I need a life, a job, a lifestyle that can accompany my game. I need a job where I am constantly training my social skills. So guys, what kind of job do you think I can practice these interactions? I'm behind everyone my age! So I'd like one thats very heavily intensive on these interactions.

I think this is a great post. Getting practice speaking to strangers whether you are interested in gaming them or not is fantastic practice, and having a job where you're foced to do it would be very helpful.

I can't think of any off the top, but I will come back later today and see if I've come up with anything. A stereotypical salesman comes to mind....Perhaps a person selling cell phones or something. But then again, we want to find jobs where there are more girls coming to the location. Perhaps working at a spa would work...

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I agree with Solo_.

@Page-how ironic that I've been unemployed for months due to global-recession.

But I'll be working in the service/hospitality industry from next week.I'll be working at a 5 star resort in my island.

Years ago,I'd never considered making such a move(since I love the office scene).

But I thought about it and figured working a hotel would be great for social dynamics as I'll be interracting with many guests(strangers).

Im an ultra-social guy to begin with(since I've discoverd the community)but there's never too much to learn.

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Bro that's sick that you work at a resort on an island. What island if you don't mind saying? Should be lots of cute girls there.

As far as jobs (aside from the stereotypical ones like nurses and hair dressers) I think some corporations hire more attractive women than others. I have a friend who works at Abercrombie HQ and he said there's mad cute girls. Hollister, victorias secret, etc would also probably work. Or just work down around a beach or at a resort.

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Im from Antigua & Barbuda in the Caribbean.

Im looking forward to bartending.

I'd never imagined bartending years ago.

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"Practise makes perfect".


That simple quote above applies to any skill you could ever acquire. Be it the skill of "talking and interacting with others" or the skill of "Playing Tennis".

So yes finding a job which forces you to be around people and converse with them will hugely improve your game.

Practice really does make perfect.

For me personally, every interaction I have, and every social thing I do, is a little bit of progress towards getting better at it. And I am discernibly better at it now than I used to be.

My main problem is that I'm behind the times. In other words, my current confidence and personality would have been a huge advantage four years ago, and I'm just playing catch up. I often find myself thinking how awesome would it be if I could go back in time or displace my old personality with my current one. What I really need to do is make progress faster. I have no doubt that in two years I'll be even more awesome, but just think of the things I could do now if I was that guy now. If that makes sense...

Your never too old to learn! Ive just turned bleedin forty and started drums 8 months ago. Am now in band playin live gigs for money and lovin it. I split with wife of 15 yrs ltr and now learnin PU and lovin that too!
ive met people and got chatting with them and learnt stuff about them i would never have done without this forum and simple missions- Its a stigma that youve got to 'catch up' with others as there will always be somebody better than you so just shed that belief and learn what you need to at your stage and make your life better for it.

I feel the exact same about my current situation, but I work as a munufacturing engineer, and there are NO girls. There aren't even any to converse with let alone pick up. I have thought about picking up a part time job, because like you I think that it will really help.

My suggestion is to find a job as a server at a fair sit down restaurant. A good amount of girls work at restaurants, and I'm sure you'll have a ton come in as customers. A few buddies of mine from high school worked as servers and shortly after high school they started pulling 9s and 10s all the time!

Good luck man!

Interesting, I would suggest working as a waiter, bartender or even at a popular clothing store(its christmas time). You're around 20 so perhaps a store like hollister, AE, Abercrombie, etc. Should be a couple of 18+ Girls working, and cute girls should come in there all the time : ]

bartending, work at a gas station

any form of store.

I work with a HB10(she has a bf) but its made me comfortable talking to hot girls talking to her almost everyday.