So I've known this one girl for a while, made out with her a few times but we never had sex. I still have my V-card and have some anxiety about performance in bed/ finsihing too early. I haven't talked with her for about 6 months, should I just throw a random text at her and try to see if she is interested? How should I play this?

Thanks

Since you've already made out and stuff, simply shoot her a text or a call and ask her if she wants to get together with you for any 'mundane' activity like a coffee or something you and her are into that's without any social obligations. Don't ask her out, you're past that. No dinner and movie, or a 'romantic' walk on the beach and the like. Keep it simple and easy going. You don't lose anything by giving her a shout, if she's not up for it at the moment, she just won't reply, and who cares about that.

And don't worry about the V-card. No MAN is ever a virgin. That word is for females only. Every man can have an erection and that's all we need.