Every time i see a set which i want to try opening i think of my openers and walk towards them. They are usually sitting down at some fast food place or walking in a mall when i walk to approach them i already have all my lines and openers ready to go in my head but i pussy out at the last minute and keep on walking. My friends look up to me and i dont want them to think im a pussy so please somebody HELP ME OVERCOME THIS AA!!!!

Often when I get this AA, I walk past them and then aim for the next closest set. This way, you're not breaking the 3-second rule like you were before and you don't have enough time to pussy out. Also, having one of these friends winging with you helps, as you don't want to face their ridicule.

That's just what helps me. Being spontaneous and facing peer pressure.

Stop thinking about the approach so much. My guess is that you make it a long, daunting walk up to the set in which you analyze every little aspect of the situation. Approach with a fun attitude. Don't put so much pressure on yourself.

take your friends with you...may sound nuts but you say your mates look up to you i find that with my friends now and when there around i game better as if i cant let them down so next time your walking with your mates a see a set which is hot and you as a group of guys you will have a look all sorta go oi oi oi look man there stunning etc...next time this happens go they are walk straight over and open dont think bout the opener till your stood in front of them and start with

hey,
turn and watch your mates jaw drop then continue talking and working the "HOT" set

Have a good time with it.
Think about it this way, If I don't approach these women, will I achieve the desired results?

The answer is no.

If you approach them, is there a chance that I will not achieve the desired results?

The answer is yes.

The difference is, if you approach them, you have the chance to achieve the desired results, whereas, if you do not approach them at all, getting the desired results will never occur.

-C

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