I thought I play a game (with myself) every time I go out with mates to a club (so far). The game's simple, I got the idea from a thread some time ago, you put some money in an envelope and you say to yourself: If i don't talk to x number of girls tonight, I will give the money to the first homeless person I see. You have to be true to yourself, you can't back out from it during the night (or else your a total AFC who doesn't deserve any woman).

I tried it last night, started at £5 and 10 girls, not a tall order. I drank a bit too much alcohol and so I wasn't really counting, but when I looked back at it I easily opened over 10 girls (i am a student and i am scared of losing a single £1! ).

So to conclude, it did make a difference! I didn't waste my time talking to just a couple of girls. I am going out again tonight, I am gonna raise the stakes I think to £10 and keep it at 10 girls. I think i am gonna keep the rule that only opening the girl is enough. (Later I'll raise it to maybe a kiss on the cheek, kiss on the lips, etc.). I just don't go out often, i need to get back into gaming.

I hope this gives some ideas for people to experiment with. I ll report back my progress from tonight.

forcing yourself past your comfort zone is the best way