I feel like the team that goes to the superbowl and looses.....like

now what?

I had always shit with women, like i was good looking, but i was clueless, so i could get like 6s and 7s even being a total retard with women...

....then i got fed up with it...learned the game. im really smart an innovative person (the poster child Aquarius lol), i definatly dont take girls shit and at first it helps me..."listen tiara, i dont buy girls drinks even if you think your a princess" and even though lets say im a 7 i have brought them down to a 8 from a 10 and its just enough that i start to get some interest from them....


and then i get things like my other thread "kiss close anxiety" where i freeze cuz in my head shes still a 10 (not the 8 i negged her down to)....


and so now its been a few weeks into school...i just get stuck at that akward flirt stage just before escalating kino with no phone #s (i feel akward getting that when im at a party bar school where its like assumed u will see everyone so a phone # is a huge SOI i cant make cuz im lower than these chicks and now im just loosing it....


those 10s i had negged into 8s are startin to realize that wait hes really not at my level...and i feel like im startin over at the attraction phase every time i see them even though we both remember everything from the last time we were flirting....


.its not my socail proof at all, i have a good one...

sure im not the leader of it, but the girls come to see our group so it cant be bad!


im just feeling stuck in a hole....like at first i felt that at least i was making progress....every night i went out (almost every night, its crazy this year!) i felt like i was getting better...

..either meeting more hot girls, getting one step farther on the Mystery method or whatever and then bam it started to get tough, and i slipped and fucked a 6.5..... i distanced myself from that (last week)








but still as i pointed out i feel lost, like i have lost all the progress ive made, going out this week has been like taking 500 steps backwards and i feel just as chump as ever.


are some people just doomed to a certain personality for life?

My God where is your confidence??

Your problem is you're focusing too much on a specific outcome like getting the girl every time then you beat yourself up if it doesn't happen.
Stop caring what other ppl think if they see you talking to a girl at a part only beta males do that.

You can't expect to be Mystery himself from the start.
So what if a hot girl didnt' buy into what you doing it's a learning process keep track of what works think of every interaction as experience an there's no such things as 500 steps back experience can't be lost ever.

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So u think you can handle this?