Hey Pua mates!

I am very upset at the moment and unsatisfied witrh myself so I am searching for a great tip from experienced puas:

I practise PUA since 2 years, I am in general very optimistic, friendly, nice, love my life and smile all the time I have read MM, DDA and Gambler stuff. I am very confidence and have a friendly apperance. I am also a magician and love to entertain people. But there is one big inner game problem:

escalation & mr. seducer!

i can open sets easy and girls like my confident and friendly attitude & i guess thats my problem! Because I am just the nice, cute & friendly guy, but not mr. seducer!
I am very good as mr social (high energy, body language, smile, talk about interesting stuff) and mr comfort (ask interesting questions like most exciting moment in your life etc&connect with her about her passion), but there is a border where I can't go in mr seducer. The border is in my fucking head I can't image to isolate her and kiss her!

I am just the interesting nice guy and con not imagethat girls really want to kiss me. I do a little bit kino, do palmreading etc but even if I dance with the girl there are sooooooo many questions in my mind like "should I kiss her? Is she comfortable with that? Would she like that? How would she react? She looks so good and I am just an average guy...." I HATE these questions and I REALLY want to stop this!
I am upset every night I walk home alone that I can't change this mindset! I think the best tipp would be a book or a dvd, cause this stuff really change my thinking. I need a positive brainwash

When I see beautiful women I can't image to kiss and seduce them, cause I think I am too small, just average looking, etc. And If I think in this way I can't NEVER seduce her. So I really have to change that!!!! I think so positive and optimistic in all my life subjects, it's just this subject where I am negative. This is crazy, isn't it?

If I see Gamblers facebook women pics I want to seduce these woman too - but I really have to change my miindset and my nice guy, "just mr. interesting" and "just friend" attitude. So there are BIG BIG challenges for me - I am ready to walk this hard way but I really need tips cause I don't know now how I can change this as fast and as most seuccessful as possible! dvd / book tip or something else would be awesome! Have heard Tyler Durdons Blueprint is for this subject?

Am I alone with this problem or how have you solved it?

Thanks to change my PUA life and make my life finally brighter

Dan

Its important to build a lot of comfort, but too much can kill it without the use of negs. Use your negs mate! This will turn you from friendly guy into mr suducer. If used properly, you should turn into the one who is the prize, your the alpha and she is the one who has to fight to get you! Neg her the right ammount and see how she responds to it. It can be simple as, "are those nails real?" and when she responds "no" tell her "oh..... they still like nice i guess.". Very subtle, but it will make her more self concious and make her want to prove herself to you. Nges Negs Negs. so important, just ALWAYS remember to smile when negging.


Johio

ive only been doing this for about 1 month and phone closed and must admit you are sufferring from the same problem as me. hit me back if you ever find the answer. Also try listening to his neg advice it might work.

You have all the skills you need. you can hold a conversation, please the crowd, make the girl comfortable.
All you have to do is become comfortable with yourself sexually. admit to yourself you're a sexual being. follow your urges. talk in a deep voice. let your hand linger when you touch her.
In short, you have to give in to your instinctual feelings.

A lot of new people have this problem. what you have to realize is just because youre attractive to her doesn't mean everything will happen on its own. You're trying to get sexual with her, so you have to risk coming off as forward at some point.