I had suffered with this for a long long time before I finally found a solution..
A lot of people tell you that you need simply motivation any you will rid your fear of the approach..untrue..you need to solve the problem by escaping your own mental prison

I found this guy named Mark Furman..he is not a pickup guru but a guru of the mind.. he calls himself a 'mental escape artist'...basically he explains that everyday people slap up against invisible walls..preventing them from doing things they want to do...his program teaches you the exact steps on how to escape this mind prison...inner game my friends

taken directly from his website is the following statement of people that have come to him in search of help

"I often find that fear of rejection, fear of failure or fear of appearing incompetent holds me back in life."

He does free live seminars and also sells cd sets..if you want to know anything else just repost or send me a message on my screenname: skater3266

can we get a free video of one of these free live seminars?

isnt mark furman that attorney from the OJ simpson trial? is this the same dude?

Well about this "everyday people slap up against invisible walls..preventing them from doing things they want to do..." its so true but actually i think the most easily i can tell you guys is to watch Revolver. What ths has to do with that quote is...i'll jus pull a line from it;

your greatest enemy is in the last place you'd look
and the last place you look is within urself
meanin...you are ur greatest enemy.

I kinda noticed ma conscious tells me alot of dos/donts...n i realize it holds me back. Think its true? I think so.

Slickz and I have gone sarging together in the summer, and he's right about that...for example , the three second rule...is so you dnt come off as a creep, but also so you dnt start getting nervous, and the nervousness usually is a result of the voice in ur head that tries to be rational...and when we went sarging, anytime we gave into our voice in our heads...we usually pulled a C&B but anytime we decided to go straight in we got quite the positive results the game has to offer...so yeah totally agree wit you slickz

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he was the racist LA cop that was a witness...haha sorry to be off topic

You state that we cannot go through these invisible barriers with motivation alone . . . true but we can diffuse them and make them all pink and fluffy and so they do not look scary at all and so they are still there but they just arent scary any more.
for more info get paul mckenners book 'instant confience'
it is a real winner and teaches you how to just bypass all the bariers of life and how to live without fear in all aspects.
other than that how well does it work

to the joy of companionship

Severe

Apparantly the dude is 'PAul McKenna' just started downloading the eBook and Cds...