The goal of being a good PUA is not to get to a C&B, right? Well, all of us know there is one out there, with our name on it. Everyone of us has dealt w/ a C&B at one time or another.

I think that the best way to overcome it (after or actually when its happening) is to laugh at whoever is attempting to ruin your shit. Like a hard, funny to everyone around that can hear you laughing laugh. Give it a "ho ho ho" if you want. Anything to try and tear down the seriousness of the situation.

The purpose of a girl going ballistic and shooting you down are many, but to accomplish 2 main goals. To use as a defense mechanism (because you said something stupid), or is trying to look cool infront of her friends. Why? Who knows, but a PUA is supposed to be the exception to the rule.

One thing I have found tho is that laughing not only REALLY pisses them off because you are keeping them from hurting your feelings, but its a DHV. Why should you let that bitch ruin your night? If other people see it, instead of being like "wow that guy is a loser" they will be like "wow, those girls are bitches and that guy isnt letting it bother him AND he is taking the high road by not sinking to their level".

Obviously, this is a tactic of last resort. Only laugh at someone when there is no way to save the set.

Responses.....

Ok, but my crash and burn was self inflicted and she was actually really cool about it, i. e. no need to laugh at her cuz I was the afc drunken monkey. She still thinks I'm cool but the attraction is gone. What do i do to get it back since i looked like an ass at this party?

mmmm i can understand where you are coming from and no, you dont want to laugh at them at this point because it will only make you further look like the ass you have made yourself out to be.

you can come back, but you will be in damage control mode. how drunk were you? was it in anyway her fault (her giving you shots, making you drink, etc.). that is a perfect out with a slight neg and you are no longer as much to blame.

if you were in the wrong in every way (i cant imagine what you said but assuming it was so terrible it would make baby jesus cry), then i would interact with her as though it never happened. strengthen your inner game. if she brings it up (which she prob wont) just be like oh wow, this is what happens when you let me drink that much, and move on.

keep in mind your not allowed to look like an asshole again if she give you a second chance. just play it cool and you can come out of it.