I'm not really sure what happened today, but I got the worst case of approach anxiety. I was at work and I planned on approaching the new secretary after work. I planned on using my new license routine I came up with or the "two best friends fighting over a girl" routine. As I was walking out to the reception desk I must have psyched myself out. She hangs out with a few other HBs that work there. I became afraid that if I blew it with her she'd tell her friends about it and make it more difficult to approach them. Then I also thought of having to see her every day after making a fool of myself. Not to mention some of the HBs are the daughters of very influential people in my company. Such as the CEO and the head of the business department. haha. Total afc thoughts. I tried to push them aside, but when I approached her I just couldn't do it.

Any thoughts of a way to over come this? I've seen her looking at me lately and I started small talk on the way out the other day without even planning on trying to game her. She seems responsive. I just need to break this damn approach anxiety. It really annoys me. I thought I was over this 2 years ago.

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Its not the words you speak, but the conviction of your actions. And with this said know that I am the prize.

Ok. I figured out how to fix my approach anxiety. I said to myself suck it up and quite being a pussy. lol. Worked great. Forced myself to open and then I couldn't run away. I opened her in a set with all the HBs I work with. That way I made an impression on all of them. It was actually easier.

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Its not the words you speak, but the conviction of your actions. And with this said know that I am the prize.

Don't alot of members of the community say not to game at work?
There are always exceptions, but is she like a ten or something?

yeah. She is a perfect 10. Her body is simply amazing and she has the most amazing eyes I've ever seen. lol. Typically I'd say no to sarging at work. But she is an intern and will be leaving my work place soon. I figure its safe.

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Its not the words you speak, but the conviction of your actions. And with this said know that I am the prize.

oh ok good lol

umm, try getting into state first thing in the morning. Try approaching someone on your way to work, that way the anxiety is minimized when you see her. Get her off that pedestal in your mind, try thinking "she's just an intern, worst case scenario she says no and has go find a job somewhere else anyway" good luck getting that number

Well you either do it or you don't it's like smoking there are things to help you quit but in the end you are just gonna have to use your manpower.