The Best image or quote ive ever heard and has been the most helpful in me being able to handle rejection was from Lovedrop. (Most ppls AA stems fm a fear of rejection)

He said this: "When people try to lower your value in some way, Just invision yourself as a Ghost, and that person is just a monkey trying to throw shit at you (lol, what a great image!) Obviously bc youre a ghost, the shit simply passes right through you and youre completely unaffected. You are Unaffected by people being dicks or bitches OR by women being attractive. Just let that shit go right through you- this is being alpha.

Im now kinda deep into learning about pu, and i just got blown out by like 3 sets last time i sarged and it kinda suckd, (but luckily i ran into a cutie i already knew and it was on), and thus my persistance to get better at pu was indirectly rewarded. I got to skip opening which i was getting stuck on at the time, and work on the other pts of the game bldng attraction, comfort, kino, etc. --> kiss/#close. But after I went home, i analyzed where it went wrong w/ the sets i unsuccessfully opend, and tried to calibrate my game accordingly.

But my pt in bringing this up is this. Dont look at it as Rejection any more, but rather as Flaws in Your Game that need to be fixed and opportunities to learn and get better. Most of the time its not that shes a bitch but that you were not successful in breaking the bitch shield, or didnt dhv, etc. Would u get all bummed out if you messed up while learning how to do cook a particular meal in culinary school? No, you shouldn't. You should realize youre a student who has much to learn; swallow your pride and simply learn fm your mistakes and later youll eventually become a master chef one day. I believe this is a very powerful mindset that can help you a lot in life, not just in pu. I guess, while still learning about pu, look at interactions w/ women as just practice quizzes and not the final exam.

Weird.

Rejection is something you have to deal with, but what is rejection?

When I talk to people (and that is a lot) I know I am a perfectly nice person who just wants to talk. If they do not want to talk to me and "reject me", then my first and only thought is "I wonder what is wrong with them".

I never get rejected, I just find people who want to talk.

Matt

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When the time comes ...and it DOES come

i think these things

" Ahahah the b**** is wack " <-- Missed out on ME tha prize.

" Your Loss girlie " <-- She didnt even take the chance to get to know you, she missed out. Your Greatness.

" Points for effort " <-- As long as you tried you can respect yourself and most likely the girl will respect your effort, for not being one of those guys that look and dont talk..

lawl jus remain cool cause she didnt reject YOU, she didnt take time to get to know you
She screwed up / Missed out

Alpha Frame of Mind ...You jus dont give a crap , NEXT

GL bro its only as hard as you make it , Make it ezz