| It’s no secret that, most guys have had it, experienced it, or are currently dealing with it. When I found the community 1.5 years ago my Approach Anxiety was at a 10, my social skills we’re at Zero and the total approaches I’d done was 1 in 23 years on top of this I was a social reject. I studied PU like a mad man because my only logic was Knowledge = Safety. After studying for about 6 months and making no approaches or going out at all what-so-ever. I didn’t think that I could ever make a cold approach, I figured that I could learn this and apply it online game.
This is how I was able to move past my Approach Anxiety:
I was able to meet a few new people and we all started going out as one big group during, Cambodia New Years. The first thing that I started to do is I would ask the most attractive women to take a picture of us. I tried to do this as many times as I could each night, I was never blown out and the women were always friendly. After some time my wing and I did NLP on each other in regards to approaching women. The never next day at Trinity I was able to make my first approach. I entered arm in arm with a female friend on mine and things went smoothly I felt so high. From there I just had to push through the pain, it was really hard at the beginning and I had to open a great deal of sets in order to get used to approaching women. After a few months I stopped PU for a few months I don’t recommend it because starting back up again made approaching hard.
More recently I got back into the game and I had to push through the pain of the approach again. Getting back up to speed was much easier then before because I more accustom to PU. I started using NLP in order to help make my inner game rock solid, I also started using Hypnotic’s “Appreciating the Approach” Hypnosis Track his program The Collection of Confidence, "Reinventing Yourself". Daily (This is the best 150 dollars I have ever spent)
On top on this I went in field like crazy, and I started pushing myself by going direct on as many sets as I could. (You would not believe the effect this has on your inner game) Now I’m to a point were I see hot girl, go talk to hot girl. My wing has told me that we’ll be in the middle of talking and my eyes glaze over then I’m gone.
So if you’re currently suffered for approach anxiety or are still having issues keep in mind that no one could be much worse then I was. If your uncomfortable, then start getting excited because this only means that your about to push yourself to new limits. Take small steps and remember that at some point you’re going to have to put yourself out on the line and there will be times that you will get rejected and it will hurt at first. But you will come to understand that it really doesn’t matter, and you will start to have fun. PU is fun and it enriches your life, you will become a stronger more confident person. If your goal is to meet and attract the women of your dreams it will happen, until then enjoy the ride. _________________ -47
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