Hey everyone, how's it going? Recently, I've been looking to sarge but here's my situation:

I'm a 21 y/o male in NYC. In my mind, there are so many guys like me out there that I feel like a douche for trying to do this. I also get shy because I can open and be friendly, but don't know what to do next, so I usually just end it there.

Also, I just can't seem to find any single women. I'm not the biggest fan of clubs or drinking. But does anyone know a good place to meet single women and not feel like a douche? Honestly, what I would LOVE to have, is a cougar. Just some older woman that wants my company, my sex drive, and will treat me well. Lol.

I'm sorry if this is a little confusing. Any advice on A) where to meet singles and B) how to overcome my shyness to do something more then break the ice.

Anyone who would want to meet up btw would be cool.

You can find single women everywhere (club, street, sport match, celibration etc.) and everywhen (morning, evening, night).

You should read Mystery's "Venusian Artist Handbook". There you can find how to do someting more then break the ice.

Good Luck!