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PostPosted: Thu Nov 20, 2008 6:49 am 
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2d time this has happend to me 1st girl moved away during summer though

basicly my fear is:
i like a girl and shes beautiful. and im scared to try 2 date or try to date her for 2 reasons:

1. shes in one of my classes so if i mess up wouldnt it be like akward as hell in that class sence we talk like everyday?

2. she likes guys with 6 packs..im afriad if i try now when im not at my best apperance possible and try i might get shut down and never get that chance when i could wait till summer when i have a six pack and then try to date her.

why i should have fear:
bc shes told me before that she loves guys wih a 6 pack.
shes so beautiful she culd get any guy in the school
she siad she liked cocky guys and im not cocky at all

why i shouldnt have fear:
bc shes called me cute atleast 3 times in differntways but never like saying to my face you are cute.like 1 time she told me my default on myspace was cute. witch could be friendly, 2d time she told me who wouldnt want 2 sexy teen agers to work for them?(we are looking for a job togather(her idea))(but could also just want to work with a friend) 3rd time(happend today) her best friend siad that i looked like a guy they knew and she siad "no the other guy is pale boreingly cute, hes tan fun guy cute."

things that kinda piss me off:
1.on halloween she told me to come over on a text. and then apparntly she sent another 1 saying in 20 mins. but i never got that so i drove to her house.she told me her mom was in a bad mood and she will call me in 20 mins... she never did. then we came back on monday and he didnt say sorry or even brought it up.
2. she has cheering 3 days outa week and fridays she always have plans for people then she goes out of town for weekends.

ps. in class today i was talking to anoter girl who is a whore. And she says"why is he talking to that slut?" witch can mean 2 things
1. she was jelious
2. she was looking up for a friend and dosn want him catching aids or anything/ can do alot better than a whore.

pss. i think alot!


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 20, 2008 4:42 pm 
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three other reasons why she doesn't like you, you're not Brad Pitt, George Clooney, or Mark Wahlberg.

You see what I'm saying?

There are a thousand reasons why a girl shouldn't like, but who cares? That will not stop you.

It sounds like she views you as fun etc...

You just have to escalate a little more. Frame a more sexual conversation without going over the top about it. Like when she asks you why you talk to the other girl, you can say something like "She's nice, that can be a turn on, what are your turn ons?" something mature and simple.

Keep it up.

Peace


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"pss. i think alot!"

Great, and now through the pickup arts, you have found an outlet.


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Remember you got one life. Live it big, not worried "what if".


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