Negative locations -- advice please?



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PostPosted: Sun Nov 02, 2008 5:29 pm 
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This summer I began learning the game and mangaged to all but banish my approach anxiety, and gain a reasonable success rate for a beginner.

However since I have returned to university, my state control is going out the window. This is because for the first two years of being there I did not make enough of an effort socially, and thus have created for myself a setting full of negaitve anchors and little social proof.

As soon as I returned from my hometown, back to uni I felt as though I had reverted back to my former afc self. I still make apporaches, but lack enthusiasm and positive energy.

Has anyone experienced this problem of negitively anchored locations, and if so do you have any advice for preventing this from ruining state control?

Thanks

Mr Blue


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 02, 2008 5:39 pm 
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I mistakenly anchored myself to feel like peeing whenever i saw my front door which means i have to run for the toilet whenever i get in.

It's unfortunate that you are anchored to a certain place and have negativity associated to a certain place.

Start making some social proof and socialising. At Uni social proof is everything


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