My problem with approaching is i feel like i need to snap and just go out on the lim like you know those nights when your on (well when you get past your shyness barriers) and you talking to anybody and you care less what people think and you just go and have fun

I went with my bud to the local mall and I trained him the night prior for all that he should know but i just wanted a wing to bring im not comfortable enough to go alone but am getting frustrated enough to say F$%* it and go for it anyways.

We would browse around and see tons of girls i would talk to some but not approaching anygroups i was just too afraid for some reason


Their was a 2 set(one was a 9 the other i didnt pay much attention to the other one) in the skater store dancing to some music i was just walking by with my freind and smiled and said "who Dances in the mall !"with a what a bunch of weirdos look on my face. the 9 said "its the napolean dynamite song " so i shook my head and kept walking by later now i realize i should be willing to stick around be a champ !

Im aware of what i should do the rules involving MM and C&F different approaches just to afraid to pull trigger
i remmeber the days when i just snap and go fuck it its all a learning experience anyways and did fine at least i was ballzy

Thats it im gonna go do it 3 second rule dont think just react

any advice on techniques for overcoming the opening phase would be appreciated

** Duke**

best thing for you is probably what I should do soon. Taking the Mystery challenge. o to that mall an say hi to every single girl that passes by. You'd be surprise at how many stop to have a conversation with you. And the ones that don't are just shocked from your initial responce that they don't know how to respond. The simple Hi is enough to start you up on your opners and you can build technique from there. I don't think technique is your problem.

i just joined this but ive been studying for a little while what i do the days im shy or nervous from a a day i got rejected ill go online and hit on girls and if they like me it boostes up my confidence.good luk







-smileforme

Take the phone directory and start calling at least 60 times per day and ask the people for advices or any other question you like it doesn't matter what you ask, your goal is to overcome your shyness.

In the streets try to talk to everybody at first you will be freeze when talking to strangers, but with practice everything will start to make sense and finally work.

Remember Practices Makes perfect.

The more you practice the best you become, the brain was designed for this purpose.