One way to get over your shyness or social anxiety is to earn some sort of skill that people will find fascinating.

Over the years I'v learnt to dance, learnt some acrobatics and even a couple sleight of hand tricks just to make myself stand out in the crowd a little.

Dancing is perfect for dance floor game, the better you move and the more fun you look like you're having the more confident youll feel and the more youll attract people looking to have fun.

When i say i learnt some acrobatics i actually just learnt how to backflip.. I havent ever met one person who cant do a backflip that wasn't amazed after i did one! "if i do a backflip will you give me your number?" works like a charm! You can find tutorials youtube so you can learn but personally id go learn in a gymnasium.

Finally the sleight of hand stuff, Obviously im no david blaine but a couple simple tricks work great if youre at the bar ordering a drink, really easily striking up conversations and also you look and feel like a total badass walking away with their jaw wide open!

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