Whats good brothers.

So lately Iv'e been getting a lot better at this. My approach could be better but I'm working on it. But once I get going with a chick it's good. My inner game is getting pretty nice. I find lots of things to talk about and I identify their emotions and make the connections and it works! One thing I find that I'm struggling with lately is I find myself shutting down when spittin game when she has other people around. I just kinda....throw the wall up I guess.

One example: Earlier today I was at my gym and there's a couple HB's that work the front desk. But one I really have my eye on. Problem is she's not around that often but when she is we have some nice conversations. Last time she totally was alone and had my full attention. Made her smile and laugh a lot (I know, I shoulda # closed that time ) I told myself next time I see her ima #close FER SURE! So I see her again today and I had it in the bag! My set laid out and everything! but it wasn't like last time. They're were people checking in and out and buying things and I found it harder to get her to pay attention to me....though she was talking to me. I just didn't feel it because of the crowd. So I threw in a time constraint and went on my way. Ugh If she was only alone!

And Iv'e noticed a pattern with this. At parties, events, ect. My game just goes down the shithole when there's a bunch of people around.

Is it just bad timing? How do I get them alone? Am I just giving a shit too much what the people around me think? What gives!

It can sometimes be a little challenging when there are others around. Most times I can stay in the bubble with the girl and not be distracted but some times I get paranoid about others but then I realize they mean nothing to the relationship between me and this girl so I try to ignore the distractions.

In this instance, since she is working and helping other customers maybe you want to try to isolate her somehow so you can go for the number without interruptions.

This is a problem that plagues many aspiring seducers but the answer is surprisingly simple.

What do you want?

This is the question you have to ask yourself. If ever you find yourself locked in conversation with the men or women in a group, but the woman you really want to speak to is sitting silently. If ever you find yourself stopping a woman in the streets to ask for directions. This is the question you must ask yourself when you exchange numbers to "hang out sometime". This is the question you must ask yourself at all times. What on earth do you want?

In this case, you want that girl's phone number to see her again. Man the fk up and ask for it!!

Why the shame in being a man? Why hide your intentions? Why downplay who you are? Stand firmly on the ground and breathe deep - relax. All of this is normal. Normal people meet. Normal people go on dates. Normal people interact socially. This is all normal.

Come to terms with your own masculinity. I am a man. I like women. I don't care who sees. It's as simple as that. Stop apologizing for being a man. Oh no! God forbid other people should know that you have balls! Oh no! God forbid she should find out that your intentions towards her are romantic!

You've got this dude. Stop waiting for perfect timing and stop apologizing for being a man.

Love
Mack

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